December 2023

A Cottage Christmas on a Smaller Scale

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We had a very nice, little Christmas.  I think Dorothy enjoyed it more than anyone.  She was gifted an extra large chewy and went wild on it.  By her reaction, you’d  have thought that dog had never been given a treat in her entire life. 

She was overjoyed, hyper, protective, feral, and in shock over her luck, all at once.  She went all crazy eyed and delved into her fortune whole heartedly, even without teeth.  

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The other hounds inhaled their goodies immediately.  I made sure they each got a new toy and a chewy.  Last year, I forgot to buy them presents and they were visibly disappointed that everyone else got something and they did not.

But their favorite part of Christmas? Having Dewdrop here to lavish them with attention.

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She is an adorable charmer and we all loved having her with us.  And the dogs weren’t the only ones who were excited about gifties, this lil sprite was enthusiastic and appreciative over every package, large or small

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One hit (get it, bats, hit?) was Thia’s softball equipment from her years as a player.  Dewdrop now is into the sport and was excited to get a bagful of bats, balls, etc to add to her collection.

I’m afraid the bag itself didn’t fare well over night.   Our dogs have picked up some sort of virus that has been passed from one to the next.  That first night, Christmas Eve, I was caught unaware that this illness was beginning.

Poor Honey had it first.  And the poor sports bag, felt the effects.  I woke up to a big mess that I needed to clear and sanitize before that child saw what had happened to her favorite present!

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I was groggy when I stumbled upon the evidence of what was to become a week of one dog after another spending a couple of days with a tummy ache.

Because the smoke detector had been chirping all night long.  I was the only one who heard it, but I couldn’t reach it until the guys came out with the big ladder to save Christmas.

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Besides those small misadventures, we’ve had a lovely, laid back week of vacation.  Our family gathering was not big this year, and our other people were greatly missed.  

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We had fun outings together to SeaLife and Hallmark Crown Center.  Some movies, a binge of Otter Dynasty (funny, weird, and mesmerizing), played some games, and made some crafts.

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Sugarwings had an idea to make “kindness bags” and distribute them to the homeless on Christmas Day.

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This is also the first year that I’ve treated the week between Christmas and New Year as a vacation myself.  No big organized crafts, building gingerbread neighborhoods, or decorating three kinds of cookies. Meals have been group efforts.

 We have eaten treats gifted to us, I bought a bag of chocolate and only made one cake beforehand.  As teens, the kids could entertain themselves without me orchestrating events to make it all “Christmassy”.  

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Being out of town five of the last ten weeks, plus working in retail the busiest season might have worn me down. I have been very worried about my sister, which tends to slow down all aspects of my world and dampen the colors around me.

We are also planning a camper trip to Florida (and Disney!) so I am trying to get my Good Juju inventory prepped and ready for both January’s and February’s sales before hitting the road.

I learned that Christmas can be magical without all of the mechanics I typically am working.  Not that I ever minded all of the work I’d put into the holiday, I loved every minute of it.  And I have learned that I can also love a more laid back celebration too.

Perfect was never a goal, that’s unattainable, and a recipe for disaster.  My goal was always to keep things festive.  And I think my grandfairies have that skill within themselves by now.

Because festiveness most certainly occurred and I mostly sat back and relished in it. 

Merry Christmas!

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I hope you are having a blessed and Merry holiday.

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Our boy and the littlest Grandfairy will be here with us.

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We hope to have lots of cocoa parties, cookie decorating, and family walks in the woods.

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Fin will visit, and Sugarwings’ mama will be here, unless a mom needs her to catch a newborn on Christmas.

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We will miss our large group,  this year we are split between different states.

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And a big chunk of my heart is in Indiana with my sisters.  I’m missing them more than usual this season.
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But I know how lucky I am to have a big, loving family, whether we are gathered together physically or just in our hearts.

 

 

The cottage living room at Christmas

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Since I’ve been back from Indy, I’ve been on a holiday whirlwind of activities.

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Including the best tradition of them all, a cocoa party in front of the tree with a Christmas movie on.  We watched Genie with Melissa McCormick and had lots of giggles with it. At least Sugarwings and I did, my husband soon retreated to his ballgame, but he did try to watch with us.

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We’ve also enjoyed Family Switch, even though there were soooo many plot holes.  But that was part of the fun, Sugarwings and I like to dissect some shows as we watch them.  And this was a very cute show.  We aren’t hallmark movie watchers, we are more into the family comedies or the traditional Santa stuff.

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I treated myself to 2 cozy fur throws on sale at Costco, one is for the sofa. It looks like a wolf and is super, soft fur on both sides to curl up under for living room movies.  But the Grandfairy has decided to pilfer it and I’m always finding it in their room. 

That’s okay. A velvet lined, white one is in my room, and so far, I’ve been able to keep it secure.  The weather hasn’t really even turned too cold yet, but I’m already snuggling up under it every evening. 

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This week, I’ve had my book club dinner party and got to see two groups of good friends for a Merry Christmas lunch out.  One was in KC, and I snuck in a couple of hours to work on my booth at Juju.  

The world around me might be festively decked out for Yuletide, but at the mall- it’s already full on Valentine’s Day.  I felt like a split personality, going from a Xmas lunch to a being surrounded by hearts and roses.  But hey, in retail, you gotta be a few steps ahead of the season.

Well, I’m still trying to finish shopping and wrapping gifts, and haven’t baked one single goodie yet.  So I’ll leave you with some pics of the living room and get back to it.

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2023 Book Club Christmas Party

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One of our bookclub members, Margie Carr, wrote a well received book about early, influential leaders of Kansas City who lived in a one block area. 
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 I fell in love with the cover’s photo of two of the girls from that street.

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Margie gave me permission to surprise our members with hand crafted ornies using this picture.  The gifts were part of my centerpiece, and everyone got to choose their favorite one to keep.

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With my trips to Indiana to be with my family while my sister is ill, I’d originally had to cancel the party,  but was able to reschedule.

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 After a lot of last minute shuffling around, and voting on what dates the most of us were available, we managed to get a good chunk of us together on one night just a week before Christmas.

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For a bit, it didn’t look like it would come together, that is such a hectic time of year.

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Luckily, a date worked out, and I even had time to go to the grocery store for supplies and make pot pies to serve.

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The Christmas tree pie didn’t turn out as good as the snow guy.  You could kinda tell what it was, but the crust sunk in a little as it baked.

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I’d even made a grid behind it for support and it still sank a little.  You could still tell it was a tree, and actually, bubbly gravy over the crust is pretty dang tasty, so no problem.

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This is a night I look forward to each year, and I was so happy that we all were able to get together.

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Our club is filled with funny, informed people who make interesting dinner guests.  Plus, it’s a great excuse for me to set the table!

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And they brought beautiful desserts.

I had such a nice evening, thanks for coming, to all who were able to make it.

 

 

 

A holiday surprise

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Yesterday I returned from another quick trip to Indiana.

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 This time it was to surprise my family at their annual ornament exchange party.

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It has been too long since I’ve been to one.  The last Christmas I remember being there was when it was held at my mom’s.  And that was before Sugarwings was born.

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Then not too much later, my sisters and started our Sister Trip traditions and we’d typically get time in Florida together each fall. My drives to Indiana came to be made for other occasions, not the holiday party.

I’d missed Christmas time with my extended family and was so glad I made this trip.  The weather was ideal for driving, and for making lots of antiquing stops along the way, I got to see Sissy’s new house all prettied up for the season, and had a week  full of hugs from people I love.

Also, I’d hoped to be of help in getting Bobbie to some of her medical appointments while I was there.

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Bobbie’s health had some hiccups and instead of helping with the drives, I was keeping her company in the ER and ICU.  Since I’d driven, I was able to have my car filled with craft supplies, and I could bead and sit quietly while she slept.  I didn’t want her to make efforts to talk, she needed her rest, so I sat with her and made bracelets.

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Lots of bracelets.  With mostly genuine stones, along with vintage crystals. With only two visitors allowed at a time, I also  made a work station for myself in the lounge and crafted there while others had their turns in her room.289BCC4C-A34C-410D-8376-34F908A50BCC 
All of us wanted to be there for her, she is so loved.

During her Thanksgiving hospital stay, doctors would always be surprised to see such a large entourage in the room.  She was in a different (and closer to Pendleton) hospital this time and that made it even easier for guests, two of her kiddos work at this one and could drop in throughout the day.  

But we mostly had to gather in the waiting rooms because of the two at a time limit.
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Overall, it was such a pleasant hospital to spend time at.  Great people, excellent care, comfortable surroundings, tasty food.  I liked the spacious rooms they put Bobbie in, and how attentive they were to her.

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Is it wrong to say how much I enjoyed being there with her, even though she felt so miserable?  That sounds wrong.

Of course, I’d rather be anywhere else with her, healthy and strong, anywhere at all! 

 I guess I mean that even though I’m devastated, worried, and terrified about her health, I loved my time there with family and being able to be part of their holiday tradition, and to sit with everyone while Bobbie was getting the treatments she needed to feel more comfortable.

 Instead of flying, I drove out, leaving my time open ended.  Once she was moved out of ICU, I needed to force myself to head back to my own holiday traditions and be with my grandfairies, no matter how much I hated to tear away.  Oh my gosh, it was so hard to leave.  I wish I wasn’t so far away, and could be one of those daily visitors that pop in to hold her hand and ask her about her appetite or tell her a story about their day.

She has a big crew of loving people around her.  I also wish I could be helping them out, with all of the extra jobs they have taken on to be of service and get our Bobbie feeling better.

Now, I am hitting the ground running, getting things ready for our own Kansas Christmas, looking forward to seeing the grandfairies open gifts, play reindeer games, and decorate cookies.

But I’ve left a chunk of my heart back home in Indiana.

Happy 55th, Bobbie and Doug

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While my sister was in the hospital, it was her 55th anniversary, and a nurse wrote a congratulatory greeting on the board.  Doug was so touched, he mentioned it to everyone who came in to the room that day.  So when I ran into that same nurse in the cafeteria, I was pleased to be able to buy her lunch as a thank you.  Any little cheery moment is a plus when you are with a loved one who is ill.  I wanted her to know we appreciated the gesture.

I added a vase of flowers to the board, and made all of the buds heart shaped.  Bobbie and Doug’s last name is Valentine.

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Did you notice the heart shaped balloon covered in sparkly, rainbow hearts?  I’d been watching it all week, stuck up in this lobby tree.  Shaking the branches wouldn’t free it.  So, on their anniversary, I had to try something else.

That balloon was meant for them!  I was on a mission.

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I looked around for someone with a cane to borrow for a minute, thinking that would be easy to find in a hospital.  But nope.

I did find a sign on a pole in the entryway, and took it apart to use the pole, then climbed up as good as I could, hitting the branches with it.

Still no luck.  But a nurse on her way out stopped to help me shake the tree while I swiped at the balloon string with my sign pole.  Between us, we snagged it and I was able to take it to the love birds who had spent the day adorably holding hands.

I wish I could’ve thanked that nurse with a lunch too.

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Pretty Pendleton for Thanksgiving

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Last year my home town, Pendleton, IN, had a fun FB trend of people photographing their cars, tractors, mowers, etc in the lights of this beautifully lit bridge.  The joke started as serious pics of cool cars shining under the lights and turned into photoshopping weird, silly things.

I enjoyed every post and had to drive by and see this pretty backdrop in person when I visited over Thanksgiving.  Maybe (if I ever get a free moment) I’ll do some photo magic with it myself.

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We had hospital cafeteria food in the guest lounge for Thanksgiving dinner.  While I felt bad leaving my  husband and out of town guests back at my house to turkey wrangle, and the reason for my visit was not a happy one, I still had a wonderful time with my sister’s family while eating grilled cheese instead of a more traditional meal.

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My sweet boy hadn’t seen his aunt Bobbie in a while and hadn’t been able to drive all the way to Kansas from North Carolina for the holiday, so he took the opportunity to meet me in Indianapolis.  Much closer!

I rarely get time with my son, this was precious to me.  It’s been a good year for spending days with him.  In August, Rich and I saw Adam in NC and I got to go rock and mushroom hunting with him.  Then in September, he came to KS to put in a studio floor for me. Now, an Indy trip too.

And soon, he will bring Dewdrop for Christmas!

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He and I weren’t Bobbie’s only visitors, by far.  Every time a doctor came into the room, he’d do a double take at the size of her entourage.

The room was always so full, that seating was scarce.  You know that Netflix show, “Is it Cake?” I was always playing, “Is it a Chair?” in the hospital room.  We sat on many non seats for seating.  Bobbie one time mentioned we could use the beeping from her machinery to switch seats in a musical chair game.

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My witty, kind hearted sister is keeping good spirits through her illness.   I admire her for that, just as I have always looked up to her and learned so much from her all of my life.

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I adore my sissies, what wonderful friends they are to me.

 

 

 

Kick starting the season

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My favorite season is here and I’m taking advantage of every fun offering available, to soak up as much holiday joy as I can.

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One annual tradition is to view the Holiday Home Tour with friends.

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This year had a banner crop of festive flair to walk through.  Every house I got to see was a winner.  But I didn’t get a complete tour, I’d over booked myself (I just can’t say no to any holiday event- if there is Christmas fun going on, I’m in the middle of it!)

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Sunday was no exception to my seasonal excess, we started the day with a coffee date with friends, then the home tour, next A Christmas Story musical with Sugarwings, and finishing the night with a holiday movie with the kiddo.

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Was it too much for one day? Welllll….. probably, but worth it.  

A couple days before, friends invited us to Snow Globe for dinner, and even though I was already swamped, we said yes.

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Ounce again, worth stretching out my time to add some extra fun.  It was a great night out.

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Plus, I’ve had First Friday weekend at Good Juju which was two long days of excitement that felt like a party itself.

We’re  barely into December and I’ve been blessed with so many glittery get togethers, that I’d  consider myself lucky and fulfilled if these were all the festivities that I got to experience.

But lucky me- I’ve got a craft date with friends this week, our Book Club dinner and gift exchange coming up, and I’m trying to find a good time to have some friends over.  Not to mention my cocoa parties in front of the tree with my grand fairy, and the way that sprite makes every day feel like it’s special.

Yep, beyond blessed.

And maybe a tiny bit tired.

Nellie Faye’s in Pendleton

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Pendleton, IN has changed since I grew up there in the 60’s and 70’s when it was a simple, but ordinary little town.   It’s always been friendly and quaint, but has grown into a place that should be a destination for someone who enjoys unique shops and specialty dining.
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And this shop?

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It certainly deserves a road trip to go see.

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Shelli lives in Pendleton, but had never been inside, but Sissy is a regular.  She took us to this darling, old, cottage tucked away from downtown across from the park.  When I stepped in the door, I felt like I was in some upscale shop in a tourist area.

Not in the sleepy, little town that I’ve known all my life.

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While it might have felt like I was in some nationally known California shop, it still had those good ol midwestern prices.

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The displays were delightful and the arty stuff was all things I wished I’d made myself.  Right up my alley.

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If you are ever in central Indiana, driving along I69, you should stop in.

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And please tell them that Sharon’s sister says hi.

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