We celebrated on Thursday, kind of low key, but nice. We went to a favorite restaurant for happy hour, then came home and watched Ozark on Netflix. Hey, when you get hooked on a series and only want to binge watch, that is a pretty exciting evening!!
We debated getting food to go and eating in front of the TV, so I'm proud of us for having a nice dinner with a glass of wine before we sped home to see what was happening next on our newest obsession. Plus, I had already put on makeup, so DANG IT, we were going out!
Part of being married for so long is knowing that you don't have to spend a lot of money on an occasion to make it special. Being together and doing something we both enjoy, was quite a nice way to celebrate the anniversary.
The painting that I did of Colorado doesn't exactly match the rest of my house, with its bright colored wildflowers and red rocks. But it was a sentimental piece for me and I realized that it was a similar size to the painting I did years ago of Destin Beach, FL.
So, I hung it with the other vacation paintings in the entryway to my studio and my husband's office, at the bottom of the stairs.
It is keeping the three paintings from Siesta Key company.
I'd better not take any more trips, I am out of wall space.
My husband's mom turned 85 in July and we all gathered at a lake house in Wyoming, generously loaned to us by brothers of a family member. The home had beautiful views from every angle, some looked over the lake, others to the mountains. This is the sunrise I saw from my bedroom window!
The lake house was spacious, with two kitchens and a gazillion beds. Still, we were worried about our hermit-ish son, Ryan and hauled the camper across country so he would have a private space to hangout in and get away if crowds made him nervous. We called it the world's biggest rolling suitcase, and filled it with belongings from all eleven of us who were coming from Kansas.
My husband was firm in making Ryan come on the trip, even though he doesn't like to travel or be in crowds. Ryan has a sensory processing disorder that makes him shy away from noise and gatherings. Two years ago, we cajoled him into flying to Florida with us too, and while there were moments that he wasn't thrilled with it, he had a good time, and ended up being my rock when there were some issues I was having trouble with and could always be counted on for a smile or a joke.
And once again, my husband was right to insist that Ryan join us, because that guy spent the whole week grinning and having fun. (We were at the lake house 3 nights, then off to Colorado to spend a few days with just our branch of the family)
How could anyone do anything but have a ton of fun when surrounded by these people??? I am blessed to not only be married to Rich, but also to be a part of his loving, and fun loving family.
I consider his siblings, my sibs too.
(Terry is a big time, Birdsong helper and is donating this hand woven shawl as a door prize at Snowbird's Song in November)
Joan's 85th birthday was an excellent excuse to come together from every part of the country. We spent time sitting on the rooftop deck, watching clouds and rainbows…
exploring the hills behind the house….
(see the tiny people up on the ridgeline?)
going through and laughing over stacks of photo albums…
hula hooping…
competing in a day long, ping pong challenge…
(which ended up being so much fun that we didn't even go down to the lake that day, the first two days, most of the group were out on jet skis and boats)
learning some circus tricks…
(my kids brought their rig for a grand performance, and gave lessons to anyone who wanted to learn)
lots of circus fun…
being serenaded by a professional actress and songstress…
(Aunt Carol gave a lovely performance of Joan's favorite songs as well as baking the best carrot cake ever)
collecting pretty rocks….
hanging out in a Wyoming style playhouse…
crafting with cousins…
being goofy…
relaxing…
super relaxing…
getting hugs…
lots of hugs…
more hugs…
did I mention hugs?…
yes, there was hugging…
laughing…
loving…
coloring…
(The house was newly renovated, we were the first to stay in it. Many of the frames on the wall were straight from the store, not filled in yet, so one sister added her coloring page to a frame. I'd brought a tub full of craft supplies and others brought colored pens, we had a craft table covered in art work of various stages, it was left up to drop in and work on when the whim struck)
and cooking, cooking, cooking….
(each branch of the family had a meal to be in charge of, but we all pitched in to help each other)
Everything that an ideal family reunion should be.
Did I mention that I was blessed to be a part of this group?
This spring, my husband started a new hobby. He is now a beekeeper. It made me a bit nervous due to the investment to set it up and our total lack of knowledge and skills. I might have been less than enthusiastic, as a matter of fact… But soon, he'd read up on it, asked other beekeepers for hints and seemed to know everything he needed to know.
I should not have doubted him, because he sure came through with a ton of honey (which we didn't expect for the first year, but these busy bees worked overtime, and with this wetter than average summer we have had a lot of beautiful blooms to feed the bees and create a bounty of sweetness!). And he loved every minute of it. He keeps a chair out by the hive so he can sit and watch them come and go, and visits them throughout the day. It has become a very entertaining thing for him.
The lure of watching the bugs fly around eludes me, but there is something mesmerizing about it for him, so I am happy that he is happy. And very glad that he loves it so much, that he does all of the work. I can safely say, "Not my hobby" and step away while he happily scrapes stuff off, or blows smoke at the insects to make them drowsy, or any of the other beyond my understanding tasks that have to be done.
Also, I was lucky that the family came together to help with the harvest, and everyone had jobs that they did enthusiastically, even with zeal. It is a huge and sticky undertaking, if my husband and I had to do it alone, it could have been rough. Instead, it was a blast with this group helping.
The grandfairies offered to make labels for all of the jars, as well as stirring the pots as needed and helping drain honey from the wax. Later on, we will make beauty products with the wax. (any tips are appreciated!)
Looking at the growing level of honey in the bottom of the pot was endlessly fascinating.
All of us had our moments of honey gazing at some point or another.
While there were a lot of steps involved, the whole process was surprisingly easy to do. I was dreading getting started, but once we were rolling, all went well. My kitchen might never be back to its nonsticky self again, but some tacky spots here and there were well worth it. We ended up with the equivalent of about 4 dozen bear bottles. Plus, there is still a giant chunk of wax sitting in a cheesecloth draining, I think we will get at least a couple more bottles out of that.
Along the way, I figured out some tips to make things easier next summer when we (hopefully) have a larger batch from this hive and some honey also from a second hive we will be starting. One thing I didn't expect, was that the wax was almost impossible to get off of the pans I'd used for setting down knives in, holding piles of wax, draining the wax, and stacking the frames in.
Oh my!
I tried washing it off, then worried about the sink drain, or if it made it past that, the septic tank.
So, the big girls took them outside to spray off with a power washer.
That helped, but there were still bits of wax that needed scraped off before the pans and bowls could go into the dishwasher. Next time? I'll use disposable aluminum foil pans. Hopefully I can wipe them down and reuse them for future honey harvests and not worry about a little wax here and there.
As everyone was busy as a bee draining, spinning, and bottling the golden goodness, I baked fresh bread to eat it on. Next time, I'll think of that ahead of time, so I'm not trying to bake while the extraction is going on. Because we decided that having a fresh loaf of bread hot out of the oven is a very important part of gathering honey! Next time, I'll be letting the dough rise while my husband is brushing the bees off the frames and bringing them in to scrape and extract.
He learned that heavy, leather gloves are important, because this is as angry as his bees have ever been, and he was stung through his regular gloves.
The table should probably be covered in a disposable table cloth too. I have washed and washed it, with soap and vinegar, but am still finding sticky spots.
The doorknobs aren't any better….even though I was smart enough to have a sink full of soapy water in the kitchen for hand washing throughout the day so people wouldn't have to touch the faucet or go into the bathroom and touch that doorknob.
Another thing we will do next time is have a wet towel on the floor for foot wiping. That might help with the sticky footprints. I'd laid out cardboard to catch drips, which helped, but still got walked through and spread throughout the house.
But hey, like I said, a little sticky ickiness is worth it! Look at this waterfall of honey!!!!
Mountain scenery is so inspiring that I have done nothing but paint since I have been home.
This one is a congloboration of something we drove by in Colorado, memories of another trip there, and the wildflowers we saw on our long hike. So, it is kinda pulled from my brain, which really is a tough way to paint, I'm happier working from a photo.
I always start with the sky and background then work forward.
Next, brighten and add detail.
Then the foreground.
I love working with acrylic paint, it is easy to make changes and cover up mistakes. This was partially watercolor too, I have a million tubes of watercolor, and used some of those to tint my acrylics. I don't really know if that is an acceptable practice, but it worked for me.
I added the rocks at the last minute because the flowers needed something. Plus, I was near Boulder, so thought a few boulders would be appropriate.
Last month, my husband's mother came very close to death. Members of the family raced across country to be by her side as she was lost in an unresponsive state, having one major seizure after another.
We were told not to expect a recovery.
But the angels were looking over her, and next thing you know, we were gathering again, this time to wish her a happy 85th birthday with her beating everyone at card games, laughing with her kids, sharing hugs, and telling stories.
We stayed at a home on Lake Alcova in Wyoming. When I travel to lakes, rivers, and sea shores, I keep my eyes open for stones or shells to create a fairy to leave behind as a thank you for the loveliness of the beaches. This time, in honor of the beings looking over Joan and saving her so that we could all be together to celebrate another year of her life, I made an angel of desert rock.
This family is always loving, kind, sharing, and full of laughter. But this reunion was even more filled with love than usual, we were all aware of how lucky we were to still have Joan with us and to be celebrating her life and the years of joy she has brought to us all.
Here is a short video of the puppies enjoying the chickens. Sitting by the fence and watching the birds was a favorite past time around here for these guys. This was at 8 weeks, back when they were still just little. (please forgive the grass, or lack of it. Between dogs and birds, our yard isn't very attractive)
It may look like I've done nothing but play with puppies for the last couple of months, but I've also been busy as a little Christmas Elf getting things ready for A Snowbird's Song in November.
And I'm not the only one thinking about Christmas in July. Sandy Babb of Quill Cottage has sent sponsor gifts to us for the Peeps to have in their gift bags.
Gifts from far away friends are much appreciated. I'm always impressed with the generosity of the presents that are sent to our group. Sandy's name, along with Beth, Maggie Raguse, and Guncle Randy, who have donated supplies or door prizes, are on the side bar of my blog with links to their sites. I'll have photos of the gifts from Randy and Beth later. If you'd like to donate a present or sponsor goodies for gift bags, please contact me at:
karlanathan@sbcglobal.net
(Sponsors, as well as past participants, get first shot at attending our get togethers.)
Thank you, Sandy, for the pretty packaged kits you have sent for us to enjoy!
Not only did I have a remarkable, and memorable time raising this litter of golden doodles, these dogs went to fantastic homes and very nice people. Hunter's family even gave me a gift for raising him! I was so surprised and delighted to get this pretty package with a teapot votive from Victoria Trading Co.
This is Hunter's new family, he left on the 4th of July. The people who chose him had spent a lot of time with him previously, including a sleepover for Father's Day.
Most of the pups had regular visits from their people.
Pip's mom met him when he was just a few days old and came by every week for snuggles.
Wolfgang's dad would drop by on a break from work or with his kids and wife in the evenings. It meant a lot to me that these folks were so excited to get a new pup that they wanted to be a part of the baby's life from the very beginning. It was good for the dogs to know they were loved.
Bella's family was too far away for visits, but they sent her a blanket for the litter to sleep on, so that when she went home, she'd have their scent. That told me that they were good people who cared about the little girl.
Ashlynn Ella went to the stud's owner, who is going to sell her. I've spent some time with this breeder and know she is going to find a perfect home for our little gal, but it was hard to see her go. It helped that she was going to go stay with a dozen or so half brothers and sisters with five acres to run on before she found her forever home.
And of course, Sugar found a decent home too…
There was a lot of debate going on in my head, but I'm glad the influence of the grand fairies won out. This is a smart pup, and is much loved by us, whether we needed a fifth dog or not.
Over the last 25 years, I've had 11-12 litters of puppies, the rest all yorkies. I've been very strict with myself, keeping only Marty, and Agnes Rosebud earlier, then when they died, I kept Albie and Dorothy from Twinkle's last litter. It takes a will of steel to be able to love the babies for weeks and send them on to new homes. I thought I could do it this time too, but didn't reckon on 4 grand fairies begging to keep one.
And I wasn't prepared for how emotionally attached I'd become to everyone of these (not so) little guys!
It is a good thing there was such a strong market for the pups because if they'd been hard to sell, I'd have been tempted to keep them ALL.
If I'd had a dozen, I could've sold them all easily. But 6 was the perfect number of babies, I had plenty of one on one time with them, 6 was a manageable amount of pups to love.
It might have been the time of year, the great weather, and ideal circumstances, but having this litter of doodles will be a treasured memory and a very special time to me.
Or is it that Doods are just plain, amazing dogs?
Oh, there was some destruction, I lost a wicker rocker, one window screen, a flip flop, the Xmas lights on the gazebo, and a lot of plants from curious, little chewers. And I spent a lot of time scooping poop.
But I was so enamoured with these guys, I just didn't care.
Now that they are going to new homes, hopefully, my blog can return to normal… It has been highjacked by fuzzy cuteness for a while, thanks for your patience with all my overflowing doggie pics!
(But I did mention that we are keeping one, right? Be warned, there will be more puppy photos coming)