celebrations

A partial eclipse but a full day

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Our eclipse experience last Monday was a laid back, quiet one.  I had plans to drive to see the big show in indiana with family, but simply couldn’t get my body to follow through with what my heart wanted to do.

After 18 hours in the car the previous weekend, with a bad cold at the same time, then working two long days at Good Juju, I was beyond beat.

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9 hours in the car plus possible traffic problems was more than I could gear up for. And our city wasn’t far off from totality, we were over 90%, that couldn’t be that big of a difference, could it?

Well yes, it was.  What you see in a total eclipse is far, far different than a partial.   We still could watch the slowly expanding then diminishing slices of moon and sun, the temps dropped and I wished for a sweater.  The colors became sharper and eerily brighter.  Rich and I had a very pleasant walk through the dog park and relaxing view of the spectacle.  But it lacked the magic I’ve seen when I was underneath the corona of the full coverage.

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Plus, I got to wear my new, favorite shirt! Designed by my buddy, Sam, at Juju.  

Overall, our afternoon outing with the dogs had a peaceful vibe, and it was a lovely day.  Sugar was a bit nervous, but the other girls didn’t seem to be affected by any of the changes in the sky.  I sang Moon Shadow a lot (maybe my singing was what had Sugar upset, she would have a point if it was.)

Basically, it was more than one of those lemonaide days.  One where you tell yourself to make the best of what you’ve got, turn those lemons into something better.  It was a very good day on its own, so I’m not complaining.  But I am promising myself that when I’m in my 80s and get one more shot at eclipse magic, I’ll not miss it.  Getting the right view of the moon shadow is worth the effort.

A Cottage Christmas on a Smaller Scale

celebrations, family

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We had a very nice, little Christmas.  I think Dorothy enjoyed it more than anyone.  She was gifted an extra large chewy and went wild on it.  By her reaction, you’d  have thought that dog had never been given a treat in her entire life. 

She was overjoyed, hyper, protective, feral, and in shock over her luck, all at once.  She went all crazy eyed and delved into her fortune whole heartedly, even without teeth.  

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The other hounds inhaled their goodies immediately.  I made sure they each got a new toy and a chewy.  Last year, I forgot to buy them presents and they were visibly disappointed that everyone else got something and they did not.

But their favorite part of Christmas? Having Dewdrop here to lavish them with attention.

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She is an adorable charmer and we all loved having her with us.  And the dogs weren’t the only ones who were excited about gifties, this lil sprite was enthusiastic and appreciative over every package, large or small

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One hit (get it, bats, hit?) was Thia’s softball equipment from her years as a player.  Dewdrop now is into the sport and was excited to get a bagful of bats, balls, etc to add to her collection.

I’m afraid the bag itself didn’t fare well over night.   Our dogs have picked up some sort of virus that has been passed from one to the next.  That first night, Christmas Eve, I was caught unaware that this illness was beginning.

Poor Honey had it first.  And the poor sports bag, felt the effects.  I woke up to a big mess that I needed to clear and sanitize before that child saw what had happened to her favorite present!

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I was groggy when I stumbled upon the evidence of what was to become a week of one dog after another spending a couple of days with a tummy ache.

Because the smoke detector had been chirping all night long.  I was the only one who heard it, but I couldn’t reach it until the guys came out with the big ladder to save Christmas.

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Besides those small misadventures, we’ve had a lovely, laid back week of vacation.  Our family gathering was not big this year, and our other people were greatly missed.  

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We had fun outings together to SeaLife and Hallmark Crown Center.  Some movies, a binge of Otter Dynasty (funny, weird, and mesmerizing), played some games, and made some crafts.

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Sugarwings had an idea to make “kindness bags” and distribute them to the homeless on Christmas Day.

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This is also the first year that I’ve treated the week between Christmas and New Year as a vacation myself.  No big organized crafts, building gingerbread neighborhoods, or decorating three kinds of cookies. Meals have been group efforts.

 We have eaten treats gifted to us, I bought a bag of chocolate and only made one cake beforehand.  As teens, the kids could entertain themselves without me orchestrating events to make it all “Christmassy”.  

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Being out of town five of the last ten weeks, plus working in retail the busiest season might have worn me down. I have been very worried about my sister, which tends to slow down all aspects of my world and dampen the colors around me.

We are also planning a camper trip to Florida (and Disney!) so I am trying to get my Good Juju inventory prepped and ready for both January’s and February’s sales before hitting the road.

I learned that Christmas can be magical without all of the mechanics I typically am working.  Not that I ever minded all of the work I’d put into the holiday, I loved every minute of it.  And I have learned that I can also love a more laid back celebration too.

Perfect was never a goal, that’s unattainable, and a recipe for disaster.  My goal was always to keep things festive.  And I think my grandfairies have that skill within themselves by now.

Because festiveness most certainly occurred and I mostly sat back and relished in it. 

Happy 55th, Bobbie and Doug

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While my sister was in the hospital, it was her 55th anniversary, and a nurse wrote a congratulatory greeting on the board.  Doug was so touched, he mentioned it to everyone who came in to the room that day.  So when I ran into that same nurse in the cafeteria, I was pleased to be able to buy her lunch as a thank you.  Any little cheery moment is a plus when you are with a loved one who is ill.  I wanted her to know we appreciated the gesture.

I added a vase of flowers to the board, and made all of the buds heart shaped.  Bobbie and Doug’s last name is Valentine.

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Did you notice the heart shaped balloon covered in sparkly, rainbow hearts?  I’d been watching it all week, stuck up in this lobby tree.  Shaking the branches wouldn’t free it.  So, on their anniversary, I had to try something else.

That balloon was meant for them!  I was on a mission.

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I looked around for someone with a cane to borrow for a minute, thinking that would be easy to find in a hospital.  But nope.

I did find a sign on a pole in the entryway, and took it apart to use the pole, then climbed up as good as I could, hitting the branches with it.

Still no luck.  But a nurse on her way out stopped to help me shake the tree while I swiped at the balloon string with my sign pole.  Between us, we snagged it and I was able to take it to the love birds who had spent the day adorably holding hands.

I wish I could’ve thanked that nurse with a lunch too.

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Once again, that was wine in the teacups

celebrations, cottage, flowers, Food and Drink, friends, We're having a party

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To celebrate Angie and Beth’s birthdays, we made plans for a day out, and I offered to make brunch first. But then, Angie picked up an estate sale to do, and between that and all of her other obligations, her time off for a whole day disappeared.  Our date switched to lunch and I decided to serve it in the gazebo to make it special.

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Hmm, not the best picture of us, but you get the idea.

We had wine in our teacups, and drank it with our pinky fingers crooked while wearing floral garden hats and speaking in a British accent, of course.

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I draped a little, round table in layers of clothes, and brought out the floral china.

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The weather cooperated with perfection, but just in case, I added a fan and extra sun umbrellas to the space.

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Teapots were filled with $1 flower bundles (our local Kroger always marks them down after the weekend) and I made place cards with “Angela” and “Elizabeth”  instead of Angie and Beth to be extra fancy.  

But “Karla” doesn’t come with a fancy option.

So I used the name my dad, Hubert, had written on my original birth certificate.

  “Huberta”

As in Huberta Josephine Downey.  

Yep, that was my name.  My mom changed it to Karla Jo.  Not nearly as much to roll off the tongue.   I think I could’ve grown up as a Bertie, or Birdy? Instead I was always Karkie Jo.

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The silk flower umbrellas from my April Showers Bring May Flowers theme at Good Juju got another go round as garden party decor.  I’ve left them up outside a while, they somewhat survived a 24 hour deluge.  I’m not sure how many more uses I’ll get out of them, but I have enjoyed every bit of our time together so far.

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We had dipped strawberries and lavender honey  dark chocolate for dessert.

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I fixed honey butter toasted croissants, individual quiches, and fruit salad. 
Even though it was their birthdays, Angie brought sparkling soda and Beth brought a salad.  
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Happy Birthday to two of the funnest people around!

 

There was wine in the teacups

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Last Tuesday evening, I hosted a Mother’s Day tea party.  A friend recently lost her MIL, then right before the holiday, her own mom passed unexpectedly.  As I planned a get together for her I realized that none of the guests’ moms were still alive.

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I thought we should honor all of the lost mothers and asked for photos of the ladies.

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Then I picked some flowers from my yard to tuck into tussie mussies.

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The plan was to sit outside by the fire and order pizza.

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But I wanted a real tea party style gathering, so I made food instead and set it out on the table with the pretty dishes.

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This tiered stand from Hobby Lobby, years ago (they still have them) always comes in handy.  On a daily basis, it holds fruit, but when company comes, the fruit goes in a bowl and this is used for serving food.

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Earlier this month, I found a metal lamp base on a flea market dollar table.  It made an ideal holder for a stack of salad plates.  

My table is oak, and not the look I wanted for a spring, flowery party.  But it’s also huge, and I don’t have tablecloths to fit it.  So, I covered it in a painter’s drop cloth and layered these rosey placemats (50 cents from a garage sale this week) on top.

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Focaccia bread isn’t exactly a tea party staple, but I baked it to look like a flower garden.

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And how lucky were we to get a perfect spring evening? Just cool enough for a fire, but not so chilly that we’re had to be close to the fire for warmth.  It was more for atmosphere.

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The table was a generous and exceptional hand me down from my sis, Terry.  And oh my.  It is a dragon mosaic made from genuine stones and can feature either a fire or umbrella in the center.

We just love it.  I call it my fire breathing dragon table.

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And I love my friends.  I’m glad we had a night together to honor our moms and to sip wine from teacups.  
I think I’ll make this a tradition.  You are never too old to miss your mommy.

A Family Together Christmas

celebrations, family, holiday decor

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Like it was for so many of the people across the country, the weather was a big challenge this holiday.  Luckily, we did fine, unlike so many stranded at airports, stuck on icy roads, or barricaded up in cold houses with no heat.

738F7B89-359C-4A0F-916C-7E37462C4B26Our discomforts were minor.  My husband’s flight home was cancelled, but he was able to drive.  Our pipes froze, but only the kitchen. After some insulating and blasting a space heater toward them, 24 hours later, we had water.  

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I’ve been horrified thinking about all the people stranded at airports. And even worse, on the snowy highways.

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I feel so blessed to have had my people with me, all cozied up in our warm house.

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We made bath products, gingerbread houses, sugar cookies and SO MANY DINNERS.

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Sugarwings made sculpy characters like this gruesome zombie gingerbread guy.  Dewdrop made bracelets.  I made lace Angel wings.

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There was snuggling.

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Laughing, lots of laughing with the little ones

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We decorated the dogs for the holiday too.

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Dewdrop decorated herself.

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None of the hats or antlers fit little Dorothy, so she was slipped into an elf hat.

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My favorite part, though?  The two littlest grand fairies, who are not so little any more, put on swimsuits and had a pool party in the jacuzzi tub.  With rubber ducks, while singing Christmas carols.  It made me so happy to hear their giggles and songs.

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With the family spread across the  country, and the littles growing up, I know that these big gatherings  have a shelf life.  

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I count my blessings every time my house fills up.

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Glass ornaments as mini carafes

celebrations, cottage, Food and Drink, friends, holiday decor, We're having a party

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We had our annual holiday bookclub dinner at the cottage last week.  

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As I usually do, I set the table with a hodge podge of mismatched pieces, but with kind of a theme.  And I tried a cute trick I’d seen at another party, using a clear glass ball as a mini carafe.

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The way I’d seen it done was at a wine tasting and they used small, plastic ornaments. I really don’t know if those are food safe.  So, I bought the big glass ones (at Hobby Lobby on clearance for 60% off), washed them well, and glued on roses that I’d painted onto old sheet music.

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At our party, I make the food and friends bring the wine, so I couldn’t pre-fill the balls with wine like the previous way I’d seen them used.  So I decided to use them for water, sitting on a glass of ice. 

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Before everyone arrived, I poured one into a cup, to see if it really was a good idea or was just messy.  

Well, so so.

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I had over filled the balls, and when pouring the water over the ice I realized that there was just too much in them.  And no where to set the balls down except right back on top of the glass, or they would roll away and flood the table.  

Oops!

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 I quickly poured some water out of each ball, leaving just the right amount for the glass.  Ha, I’m glad I checked!

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After dinner, the ornaments were party favors to take home.  
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I should’ve made everyone take food home too, I made way, way too much.  As usual. I ended up putting this pie in the freezer for when the family comes home for Christmas.  And I served some of the cupcakes at another party. Oh, and I did manage to take care of the rest of the extra cupcakes.  

Somebody had to, right?

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A few days after the book club bash, I was hosting a craft day get together.  And the day after that, Sugarwings was supposed to have a cocoa party, but it was cancelled due to an ear infection, poor kid.

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Typically, I like to have all of my parties in the same week, so I only have to clean the house once.  And as I take plates out of the dishwasher, I reset the table so it’s ready to go for the next event. The cottage has a festive feel all week when it is party time.  

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For the craft day party, I did use wine in the Christmas balls.

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Which, come to think of it, probably makes them harder to rinse out if they are meant to be keepsakes. I am not sure if I’ll do this party trick again or not.  I enjoyed it, and thought it made the table festive.  I hope the guests enjoyed it too.
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It was a happy Halloween

celebrations, cottage, family, Food and Drink, holiday decor

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At this point, Halloween is long past, withering away in its crypt.

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Due to my inability to use my blog, I didn’t get to share the holiday, so I’ll post some highlights now.  As I upload these pictures, I am sitting in the glow of my Christmas tree.

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But that doesn’t mean much.  Around here, the flip is fast.  Almost, but not quite like at Disney, where over night on October 31st, the entire park is transformed from one holiday into the other.

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We go through more of a Nightmare Before Christmas scenario, where they are jumbled together for a couple days during the switcheroo.

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Sugarwings loves the spooky decor and does not want it touched if she is with us. But I needed help with getting the big tree put together and Rich was going out of town.  My choices were to ask him to help before he left and have the tree set up, with all the heavy boxes of decorations piled up around the pumpkin and bat filled house or do it myself later.

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Of course, I asked for the help!  So we had a messy mix of two overlapping decor styles. 
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I used to wait til thanksgiving weekend to deck the halls.  Our motto was, “You Must Respect the Bird” and wait for that holiday to pass before enjoying twinkle lights.  But not any more.  I have changed it to “You Must Respect the Pumpkin” and don’t even let the jack-o-lanterns start to moulder before I fill the house with joy and light fro the trees. 

But no, we don’t totally gloss over Thanksgiving.  I de-skull and un-spookify the table, but leave the pumpkins out on it till after the turkey has been consumed.  The pumpkins either light up or have glitter, so I am happy with the compromise.

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Sugarwings still trick or treats, and since my mind is already on gingerbread and garlands, I asked her to save some candy for building our gingie cottages.

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As much as I love spring time weather, and the heat of summer, this has to be my favorite time of year.  I dread the coming of cold weather, but love all the hustle and bustle that comes around when the leaves drop and snow starts to fall.

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Ugh, did I really just say that!?  Snow and falling leaves can be truly despicable (and way too cold).

But I do love the transition into Christmas, so if I have to put up with a chill to get to be surrounded by twinkle lights, we’ll, I guess I’ll just deal with it.  
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Family reunion centerpiece ideas

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The night before our Downey Dinner, we hosted a Cousins’ Night and Sissy offered up her brand new, not even moved into home for the get together.  I was the first person to ever use the oven!

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The meal that night was Taco on a Plate, and cousins brought sides and desserts.  For the reunion, the hosts provide fried chicken, mashed potatoes, drinks, the rest is pitch in.  This is the pie I made for my personal contribution, and Sissy let me borrow her home to do make it in.

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Oh my gosh, we had the BEST foods!

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And lots of it.

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After we eat there are photos of each individual family, and other group shots.

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I’d made this sign to hang on the wall above photos, but when Kathleen’s group couldn’t all fit under it, I suggested they held the letters.  Look how cute little Y is.  She looks proud of herself for helping.

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While on our sister trip to Florida this spring, we made photo flowers for centerpieces and Bobbie added sticks to use as stems.  I brought hand painted pots with oasis and moss in them, but we soon realized that with our big group, there were too many blooming pictures for a handful of pots.  Bobbie supplied canning jars with tea lights and I tossed some moss into those too.

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There wasn’t a lot we could do to the venue without investing too much time or money.  I thought the flowers added a personal touch.  Plus, it gets everyone mingling and going from table to table so that they can “pick” a bouquet of relatives to take home.  

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The tables were covered in white plastic and I used a sharpie to draw vines and write quotes about families.

Here are some that I used:

“What can you do to promote world peace? Go home and love your family.” —Mother Teresa

“Nothing is better than going home to family and eating good food and relaxing.” – Irina Shayk

“I sustain myself with the love of family.”―Maya Angelou

"In every conceivable manner, the family is a link to our past, bridge to our future."— Alex Haley

“We are family / I got all my sisters with me.”- Sister Sledge

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