Dew Drop

Hi there, Mr. Claus!

celebrations, Dew Drop, family, holiday decor, Sugarwings

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We love to visit Santa and have a fabulous brunch at The Nicklaus Club at Lionsgate.  

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And not just because the napkins are folded like trees.

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It is a fun excuse to get dressed up and spend some time with family and that jolly old elf, himself.

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This year, the grand fairies made gifts for him, and he liked them so much, he offered the kiddos jobs at the North Pole as elves.  I told them that I'd miss them a lot, but it sounded like a good opportunity.

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We've been visiting him for years.

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Since Dewdrop was just tiny.

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Oh, they grow sooooooo fast, don't they?
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And the holiday season is gone in a flash.  

I'm enjoying every single blessed moment of it! And I hope that you are too.

Ghosts and Giggles

Dew Drop, family, holiday decor, Sugarwings, We're having a party

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The company my husband works for owns a club in KC, which hosts an annual Halloween party for kids, that I love even more than the kiddos do.

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Corny and cute, and full of Halloween fun,  it's just adorable.  

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We decorated pumpkins, watched a magic show, ate ghoulish food, got some balloon animals, and went through a haunted house in the locker room.  Well, through most of the haunted house, we backed out about half way through when we encountered a WEREWOLF!

Although, I did try to explain to the little ones that the employees of the club dressed up as the characters, and the werewolf was probably someone who drove the beverage cart and was actually a BEERWOLF. 

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But that was still a little too spooky, so we backed out and headed to the buffet to dine on fa-boo-lous foods.

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I was a green haired witch, (the only adult not working there who was in costume, but hey, does that really matter?) and when I took a bite of the "witch's fingers" (french fries), I was accused of cannibalism by my tablemates.  

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There was a ton of candy to trick or treat from too.  And little goodie bags filled with puzzles and coloring books.

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I had the grandfairies for the weekend, so we made a day of the event by designing and making our own costumes from things found in the dress up closet. This vintage prom dress had some holes in it, which got flowers hot glued onto as patches, and we added straps with colorful ribbons and safety pins.  A few more flowers were added to the wreath for her crown, it used to be a fairy garland that she'd worn to the Renfest..

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I didn't think about the Day of the Dead theme being "cultural appropriation."  That is a real problem in the world, but from all the people I've spoken to and the reading I've done, it can be a gray area in many cases.  

My Hispanic buddy, Romeo, told me that he finds other ethnicities using Sugar Skulls offensive if it is done in a belittling or cartoonish manner. But if created in an appreciation of the beauty and heritage, he approves.  And I can promise this wasn't chosen as a joke.   As an artist, I was excited about producing my own version.  And as a daughter who lost her mother, I was comforted by the culture of honoring the dead.  A friend spoke to me about that after my mom died and I don't know if she ever realized how much her conversation meant to me.

Hopefully, I haven't offended anyone out there?  If so, please know that wasn't my intention.

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I hope you had a lovely Halloween, I know we did, although it was too cold to attend the annual Zombie Walk for me (and that was heartbreaking, but not so much that I'd brave the bad weather for it). 

Now, time to deck the halls!!!!!!!!!!! 

The ghouls are gone, bring on the bling!

 

 

First vet check, and trying to convince the doods to get in the crates

Dew Drop, dogs, family, puppies!, Sugarwings

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Getting the pups to the vet for their 6 week shots required a couple of side kicks to help me load them up.  

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These guys are not yorkie pups, that is for sure. When Twinkle had babies, all 9 could go in one carrier.  These ginormous fur balls generously filled 2 crates with three in each.  In many ways, golden doodles are easier to raise, they are hardier and more independent.  Yorkies are such tiny, delicate babies that they require more hands on care.  This litter, lives in the breezeway with the door open so they can take themselves out to potty.  Twinkle's pups lived indoors, in a wading pool, and I picked up the itsy bitsy poops to keep the area clean. I still have to scoop up after the doods, but at least it is out in the yard. Those pups are great about not going anywhere near their nest, since they have a full run of the yard.  

It has been a lot of work, though.  The first hour of every day was spent cleaning up, changing bedding, disinfecting their area when they were younger. Now that they are older, I'm still out there every morning, cleaning up, but it is with a grabber, picking up piles from the yard.  And I'm doing it over and over throughout the day to make sure they have a clean area to play in.  

And each day, those dogs get larger.

And larger.

You can almost watch them grow.

But they are laid back for pups, pretty easy to take care of.  When my assistants and I took them to the vet, they cooperated very well, none ran off or caused too much mischief.  

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The doc gave them all good health reports. None cried when it got a shot, either.

Sugarwings took notes during the appointment for us. 

It was all pretty cute. A crowd gathered around at the office, smiling and laughing a the scene we made carrying in the passel of pups and getting them weighed.  

Here is a little video of the girls loading them up for the trip.  (Please excuse the messy garage.)

 

 

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  I hope you aren't sick of all the pup pics, just in case, here is one of some roses I am painting. 

Golden summer skies and goldendoodles

Dew Drop, dogs, family, Garden, puppies!, Sugarwings

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Sugarwings keeps a ladder under the mulberry trees for the whole berry season, for easy access when she needs a snack.  

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What on earth is better for a kid than running in the clover fields with puppies and climbing trees to eat berries on a sunny, summer day?

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The grand fairies and the babies raced across the field, collapsing onto the ground for wriggling hugs when they got worn out.

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It really doesn't get any better than this.

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Perfection!

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PS- Happy birthday, Guncle Randy!

Dewdrop and the doggies

Dew Drop, dogs, family, puppies!, Sugarwings

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While Guncle Randy was here, pet butlering and then hanging out in the studio with me, we had a room full of pups, along with one grand fairy.  She saw us taking photos of pups (and being a bit of a ham herself,) she scooted off to her dress up closet and wriggled into a gown that would be properly eye catching for a photo shoot.

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Nope, not exactly a wallflower, huh?  She was into posing.

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And made an adorable model, huh?
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Her furry friends were slightly cute themselves.

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Oh, this baby looks so sweet and tiny here! The puppies are growing so fast!  This was such a short time ago, but they look nothing like this now.

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Time with babies is precious.

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The time slips away so quickly.

Adventuring with Grand Fairies- tips and tricks for Disney with little girls

celebrations, Dew Drop, Sugarwings, Travel

 

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The Grand Fairies and I went on an adventure.

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The 3 of us flew to Orlando together and spent a couple of days at Disneyworld.  I was impressed with how smoothly it all went, considering it was spring break time, and we weren't the only ones who had the idea of going there then.

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There were a few struggles, but nothing we couldn't handle.

Lost rental car keys? Take a bus. (There is great, free transportation from the Disney hotels to the park, it was actually easier than driving)

Chilly weather? Lots of layers. Lots.

Bag too heavy? Rent a stroller to carry it.  

Kids too tired? Trade that single stroller in for a double and push those kids around, remembering to call it a carriage, NOT a stroller. Who cares if they are "too old" to be in one, it made the day much more pleasant for us all, and those strollers glide so easily, that it was no problem for me to manage it. It was actually more convenient to have the girls seated together as the day progressed and the crowds grew larger and larger and larger and larger.

Crowded restaurants at lunch time? Find a kids' zone to color in and wait til it clears.  Patience and distractions got us through wait times, along with a bag full of snacks, and water bottles.

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We took breaks and kept it as chill as we could.  We arrived early to our scheduled events, like our dinner at Cinderella's castle, and read books or played games on ipads to rest up before the party started.  For the "Wishes" fireworks show, we found a cozy spot with a family chock full of little girls nearby and hung out for an hour before the show began, for a perfect view, enjoying just BEING there, while making friends.  

Our sidewalk neighbors were Muslim (I'm guessing on this) and didn't speak English, I'm not sure where they were visiting from, but I got a kick out of watching Dewdrop befriend them, even with a language barrier.  They were joined by a couple Hispanic girls behind us, and it became a little United Nations of princess talk and giggles.

One trick I regret not using on this trip, was watching the parade from Frontierland instead of Main Street. It begins in Frontierland and the crowds are much smaller there.  We didn't have a good view this time, and it was my own fault for not getting to a good spot early. Because it is hard to see the show if you haven't staked out a place ahead of time.

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My thought is that a trip to Mickey's place isn't a contest to see how much you can do to "get your money's worth", a day in the park is meant to be completely enjoyable and fun, not rushed and crazy.

I plan ahead as much as I can to make the most of the time, but we leave plenty of space for just plain old sightseeing, hanging out, and rolling with the day.   We spent the entire day in Fantasy Land and Tomorrow Land, without seeing a single other area, and didn't care. So what if we didn't see it all in one day?

What we saw, and what we did was amazing!

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My biggest tip for a good day at the park is to make the most of fast passes and use the Disney park ap on your phone to keep them updated, as you use them up, you can book more. Also you can check wait times on all rides so you know where you can get in quickly without waiting for crowds.  We never waited more than 10-15 minutes throughout the day, unless we were purposely taking a break.

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And if you can't get reservations for the meals you want, keep trying. Even during spring break's larger than usual crowds, we were able to dine at Cinderella's Castle as well as in Belle's.  Both were full up when I first checked, but I made a point of looking online for openings periodically the month before we left and eventually, spots opened up both places we wanted to go.  

(okay, I admit that I was a bit obsessed with that, and some days, I checked the dining reservation site 5 times a day)

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Another tip that I found helpful was dressing the girls alike.  I dread the day they won't let me do this anymore, because it sure makes it easier to find them in crowds.  I always make sure I am wearing something colorful myself, so they can spot me easily too.  When they get too sophisticated for twin outfits, maybe we will all chose a family color to wear when we go to zoos or amusement parks.  

I have never splurged on taking the girls to the Bippity Boppity Boo salon, but I do buy them each a new dress for our visits.  Kohls has the cutest Disney lines of clothes, and with their sale prices, I got two dresses from the Beauty and Beast collection that will be worn over and over and over for much less than I'd have paid for a gown from the salon.  And I knew the girls would be comfortable for the day. Some of those gowns that are sold in the park are too flimsy to be warm in the early mornings and after dark, but look hot in the middle of the day when the sun is out. 

We went on St Pat's day, and I checked out the Dollar Spot at Target before we left for some light up necklaces and crowns to celebrate in an affordable way.  We also packed glo-sticks from the dollar store to give us some sparkle once night time came.  

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If you want to get into the park early to get decent photos of the castle before Main Street becomes shoulder to shoulder traffic, you should go early and be there when it opens (or before).  We were lucky that the Extra Magic Hours (a free hour to go early or stay late at a park) happened to co-inside with Magic Kingdom that day.   Sometimes the park that has the Magic Hours isn't the one you have tickets to, they change daily.  And you have to stay at a Disney hotel to get that free hour.

Or you can book a reservation at a restaurant in the park, for an early breakfast and get in early that way.  When you go early, you can often walk right onto rides, no line at all.

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We had no waits at all for Winnie the Poo, Small World, and the merry go round, all in about 35-40 minutes or so.   We even rode Small World twice. And you are welcome for the gift of that song in your head for the rest of the day, it is still in mine, we rode it later that day too. Twice. Yes, it will be in my head til the end of time after that, but I kinda like it, so didn't mind.

Here is another tip- if your kids are into gymnastics, and trapeze like mine are, please council them before getting on the carousel about not standing up and doing tricks on the horses.

The operator stopped the ride to talk to these two after they were caught showing off their circus skills as the ponies went round and round.  And funny enough, they hold the ride up for a LONG time talking to the kids, they didn't simply tell them not to do it, or to get off. I was surprised by the length of the lecture.  Or did it just seem like it was forever because they were all pointing to me in the crowd as the reprimand was going on?

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A lot of time waiting can be spent looking for Hidden Mickeys too. I don't know if this counts as one, but it was delicious anyway.

This was the first time we used the Disney dining plan, we chose "quick service" which is the lower end one.  And we were not able to use it for the upper priced meal at Cinderella's castle, so we had extra meals on it. The quick service plan was honored at Belle's castle tho, and the meal even came with this bonus tray of pastries.  

We also shared two meals three ways a couple of times.  And didn't really buy much in the way of snacks.  So, was purchasing the meal plan worth it? Well, it ended up being so for us, because we met up with Dewdrop's mama the day after we went to Magic Kingdom and I paid for them to go to Animal Kingdom together, and the credits on the meal plan carried over for them to use.  The points were good until midnight the day you check out of the hotel and could be used at Disney Springs too. Sugarwings and I went there to hang out, had some dinner, and bought snacks to go to use up some of the credits.  We ate caramel apples at our beach hotel for the next couple of days.  

But for just one adult and two little fairies, for just two days, it wouldn't have been a good deal,  it was too much food for the three of us.  I don't know if I'd do it again or not.

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 Check out was at 11, and we were able to get a later one, (request a later check out upon checkin, don't wait!) so we spent time at the pool at our hotel, then spent the rest of the day at Disney Springs, seeing Beauty and the Beast and having dinner.  That gave us an extra day to use up the meal plan, and we shared it with Dewdrop's mama, but it was still hard to finish up all of the credits without stuffing ourselves.  

Here is something I learned about the dining plan we were on.  10 years old is ADULT PRICED!  But- when I used the dining plan, it wasn't divided up between "adult" or "child" meals. There were two credits each, each day for just a meal, plus snack credits and a refill cup good for use at the hotel only, but it was great for refilling with ice water- free at any counter service restaurant.  

We could order two adult meals and split them three ways, and could order the highest priced meals on the quick serve menu. 

BUT- you have to purchase a meal plan for each person in your hotel room. So, the only way I see doing this again would be if I had two separate hotel rooms, and we shared a meal plan somehow. Or once the kiddos are older and eat more, it would be worth it. For now? Not for us.   

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We stayed at one of the "value" priced hotels and it ended up being the favorite of any we'd been at. At least from the kiddos point of view. (I've stayed at the Animal Kingdom resort with my sis, Terry, and I can't say any hotel anywhere is better than that one!) 

This one, Art of Animation, was over the top gaudy, bright, fun, and full of 3 story high characters the kids love. So, it was an ideal choice, was much less expensive than any of the other hotels I've stayed in there, and it made the grand fairies VERY happy.  The pools were such fun that we wished we had more time to stay there.  The hotel itself was a blast for the littles, although it might have been a bit much if my husband had come along.

It was at least $150 less per night than the medium value hotel we usually go to (Caribbean Beach).  That alone was good for me, the girls loved the Ariel decor, and the bus to the Magic Kingdom was direct and quick.

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A tip I got from my sis, the Disney master (Terry) is to get a fast pass to see Belle's tales.  It is a cute, interactive play and every child gets to be in it, meet Belle, and get a free book mark.  That is much more interesting than simply standing in line to meet a princess.

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If you do a character meet and greet or one of their meals, pick up a note book from the Dollar Spot at Target, or somewhere else with bargain prices so the kids can collect autographs.  No reason to buy one for $10 or more at the park. And Target has Disney themed books that are every bit as cute.  My girls saved the signature pages to make a scrap book with the photos I took of them meeting their royal friends.

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Here is another tip- pick up extra maps, they get torn up, lost, and fought over if you don't.  No reason to play tug of war with one if there is an unending supply.  

Another activity to keep busy between rides is Pin Trading.  The grand fairies like doing it so much, they even traded back and forth with each other all day.

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We had the best time with our stay. I wish it could be longer, I've never taken the little ones when we could go to the park more than one day, the timing just never works out for us. This time, we had an afternoon and evening at the hotel, then a day at the park, and another night at the hotel, then a late check out.

Here is another tip- don't over do it!

We probably could've squeezed in one more day at a park before driving to the beach to meet up with my husband after checking out of the hotel.  But, as tempting as it was, I knew I'd be exhausted if I spent another day in one of the parks, then had a two hour drive to get to our beach hotel afterwards.  Hanging out at the pool and at Disney Springs for a couple of hours was ideal for us, plenty more Disney fun, and no more ticket purchases. There are a lot of fun things to do in the area without buying a ticket. 

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These are all tips that I've learned after taking children a few times, and I know that I am in no way an expert.  I just wanted to pass on some things I've learned along the way.

 

 

Springtime entertaining and making things

Dew Drop, holiday decor

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We had some friends over before Easter for a small dinner party. One had a daughter near Dewdrop's age, so I set up a special table for them to dine at.  Afterwards, they had craft projects to do and eggs to dye.

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This is my favorite time of year, and I adore the colors of spring! I broke out the new, pastel, floral table cloth that the guncles gave to me, and the white dishes from Beth, for a soft colored look to fit the season.

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My pal, Shan, brought this mosaic flower pot to me when she came for dinner.  Just perfect with all of my sugared eggs!  Those eggs were the perfect craft for me, I had a ton of fun making them, got to use them in my decor, sold a bunch, and gave away a dozen or so to followers.  

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Sugarwings has become a Pinterest fan.  We saw some bunny cupcakes there and the family had a cupcake decorating party one night. They were nice enough to make some extras for the dinner party too.

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Of course, we are always at our happiest when we are making things. I stopped at Michaels before our gathering to get the craft supplies for the little girls and we took some time to attend one of their kids' workshops. These are often free, or if they cost anything, it is minimal.

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The teacher was sweet as can be, and Dewdrop was the only kid attending. I hope more children turn out for these things, I'd hate to see them get cancelled due to lack of participation.  We sure enjoy them!

PS-  Sign ups for A Snowbird's Song, (Birdsong 6) begin on Friday.  If you have attended any classes at my cottage, or sponsored gifts for an event, you are welcome to sign up between Friday and Tuesday. On Tuesday, it opens up for new friends to join us.  Details on Friday! (Also, if you are signing up this weekend, you are welcome to add a pal who is new to the group, if you do not wish to attend on your own. It's always fun to bring a buddy to room with, right?)

Sugarwings found my camera

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Sometimes, Sugarwings will find my camera and take a few pictures with it.  Her favorite subject is Dewdrop.

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I don't blame her, what a cute model! Even though the poor kid was sick that day, full of spots from some strange ailment, and just getting over a fever, she was still pretty dang adorable.  

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Aw, poor baby, she felt yucky.  I thought she might have Fifth Disease from the red cheeks, but that didn't last, her spots morphed and moved so much, we didn't know if it was measles, chicken pox, or who knows what. But her fever broke, and she was up and playing, so we weren't too worried.

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Sugarwings also got some still life pictures.

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It's always a pleasant surprise to find photos on the camera from her. I like seeing what she finds interesting.  And the photos aren't bad, either.

Please keep checking back, I do have new stories pre-posted for you to read while I am away. Also, any orders from the Boutique will be shipped on March 28th. Thanks for your patience!

Dancing Dewdrop

Dew Drop

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Our littlest grand fairy is taking ballet lessons.

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I just can't imagine anything cuter than a little girl dressed up for dance class!

I'll be dancing off to Disney with this sprite, and will be gone for a bit.  Please keep checking back, I do have new stories pre-posted for you to read while I am away. Also, any orders from the Boutique will be shipped on March 28th. Thanks for your patience!

Holiday Mom-style Stress

celebrations, Dew Drop, family, Food and Drink, holiday decor, Sugarwings

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What was the best part of your Christmas?

Mine was these smiles.  And lots of them.

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The grand fairies seemed over joyed with all their gifts (even though Dewdrop didn't get the two front teeth that she needed).

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We were blessed with multiple celebrations starting with a Solstice party on the 21st, then our big family dinner and gifts to each other on the 24th.  

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On Christmas morning, we checked out what Santa brought, then had a big, buffet, brunch-bash with relatives.

 

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With a table set for TWENTY THREE!  (Did I mention how much I love my newly enlarged space????)  We snaked three tables through the kitchen into the living room, and all seemed to fit just fine.

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I'd had planned to set the table and make it fancy, but I was lucky to even get food done.  So, everyone had to get their own forks and plates and drinks, which seriously, no one minded, or noticed. There is only so much time, and I overestimated how much time I had.  

Which brings me to admitting that I over extended myself right along with the tables.

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Which I think is pretty typical for the mom of the family to do.  

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After prepping all of the big meals, I was done in.

 I loved, loved, loved, the family parts and the holiday traditions, of the weekend, but I have to say that I didn't enjoy fixing all of the food.   While trying to please everyone and make sure they all got their favorite things, making vegan, vegetarian, meat lover, and gluten free versions of the foods, I forgot to keep my Christmas spirit.  I got tired, I got cranky, I got resentful that I didn't have time to decorate cookies with the kiddos.

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I don't know if it was because I'd been ill this year and am not back to 100%, (a medicine that I am on for another month or so can cause tiredness and muscle aches) or if I'm simply getting older and slowing down, or if I really did over plan and do too much.

Or maybe:

  • I had shoes that were too tight.
  • My head wasn't screwed on right.
  • My heart was two sizes too small.

Cause I acted a little Grinchy while pulling it all together.  I'm a bit ashamed of myself.  

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Yet, on the other hand, I sincerely, honestly love the holidays and it all means so much to me.  I did make a huge effort to stay positive and loving with the grand fairies, but I think I grumped and grinched a bit too much with the older family members and really shouldn't have let that happen.

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And no, even though Honey looks a little like Max here, I didn't force her into pulling a sleigh. I wasn't full on Grinch, just annoyed that the food preparation never seemed to end.  

Like I said, it often is the way of many moms to stress out to make things perfect for Christmas.  Normally, I can kind of roll with it and keep our holiday simple while pretty.  This year, I'm not sure why, but it got away from me, and I was in over my head.

At least I learned a lesson.  Next year we will do a simmering pot of soup instead of a full  restaurant menu with enough food to feed a restaurant full of people.  I have to be able to treat my family special while not forgetting about myself too.  

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Yes, I'll change the  dinner next time, but there isn't one other thing I'd change, it was delightful to be with people I loved and there is nothing better than that.

(and the leftovers were pretty tasty)

 

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