family

Our Christmas

Dew Drop, family, Food and Drink, holiday decor, Sugarwings

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Sugarwings and her mommy spent the night with us on Christmas Eve, so we had her here when she woke up to find what Santa had brought to her.

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And to check and see if he'd found the cookies she'd made for him the day before. (Yes, and speaking for the jolly, old guy, I have to say, they were YUMMY!)

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We do our family party on Christmas Eve.  It's a day of hanging out, baking, dinner, and then opening gifts together.

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Mid-afternoon, we realized that we had no cookies to leave out that night! Oh my! So, we all chipped in to mix, roll, cut, bake and decorate a giant batch of sugar cookies and a small batch of gluten/dairy free ones too.

I discovered that almond meal is perfect for dusting the table to roll out the gluten free ones.  I'm not a fan of most of the flours used in that kind of baking, and if you dust with them, the cookies aren't very good. Almond flour was ideal, plus it gave a nutty flavor to the goodies.

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Making cookies at the last minute set us behind a little on our dinner.  So, the prime rib got into the oven a bit late, then just would NOT cook.  It was taking forever,  we started in on gifts and decided to open a few before we ate.

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So we had some back and forth, checking on dinner and opening pressies.  Till we realized that the hunk of meat was going to be in the oven way, way too late, and we might still be waiting to eat, with Santa sitting up on the roof waiting for us to get tucked in so he could come on down. 

We went into high gear, slicing up the giant slab of prime rib, and turned it into rib eye steaks, while my husband fired up the grill (in the dark, on a 30 degree night).  

I was glad he did because, man, were those good, and grilled to perfection!

My son sauteed a few pounds of mushrooms with eggplant and golden beets, and I'd baked a layered red beet, asparagus, and rainbow carrot casserole.  Along with that, we had smashed potatoes with garlic aoli sauce and panko crumbs.  Plus fresh, homemade rolls, and canned green beans from Aunt Jenny's garden.

No one minded waiting, it was delicious, and a big group effort.

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And soon, we were right back into the fray.  Leftovers were popped in the fridge, the table was cleared, and dishes were piled up to do later, getting those packages open was much more important.

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We like to open one gift at a time, with everyone getting to watch and enjoy seeing what the other person got. That way, there is time for modelling and admiring the presents too.

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And plenty of time for hugs and thank yous.

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We are all about the hugs around here.

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 See what I mean?

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I hope there was lots of love in your day too.

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For the rest of the week, my husband and I are loading up these two fairies and driving south till we find some sunshine. It's an impromptu trip and who knows what we will find on our "maventure" as Dewdrop calls it.

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Our adventures have been nonstop for the holiday, and it is very exciting that they are still ongoing.

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Last week, we saw "Mary Poppins" at the local theater the same day that we attended a "Santa Splash" at the indoor aquatic center. Along with all of the other parties and plans, it has been one fun event after another for about a month of Christmassing.  A little vacation is just what I need to rest up from all of the celebrating that I've been whooping it up with  since Thanksgiving.

 Between being on the go all of the time with holiday happenings, buying and wrapping gifts, shipping packages like crazy (by the way, thank you for all the shopping at my Boutique and Etsy store!!), being sick for months, (I'm finally done coughing, it was a Christmas miracle), redoing the bedroom (pictures to come of the new look) and everyday life, the beach is sounding pretty good right now. I hear it will be too chilly to swim in the Gulf, but I'm happy with playing in the sand.

There are new pre-posted blogs upcoming, so please do check back.  And have a great new year!

 

 

A festive season

celebrations, family, Food and Drink, holiday decor, We're having a party

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I've been going full speed into Christmas this year.  I always love the season, and this year even more. I've arranged one activity, party, or gathering one after another.  

It has been glorious! (that word should always be spoken the way Will Farrell says it in "Old School")

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Last weekend was Breakfast with Santa at Lion's Gate country club.  They have the BEST Santy Claus. 

Sadly, Dewdrop was ill and couldn't make it. So, we will be taking her to see the jolly old elf at the community pool for a Santa Swim party.

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I've bought tickets to plays, gone to craft parties, thrown craft days, arranged luncheons, attended gatherings, hosted gatherings, and have had so much going on that there has been something exciting almost every single day.

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If there wasn't a special activity going on, Sugarwings and I would make one up. We'd turn an ordinary day into an event. We'd dye trees (our Christmas version of doing eggs at Easter), set up a fancy table with good dishes in front of the Christmas tree and have a cocoa party, draw up a list of holiday lit homes in town and go on an adventure hunt to follow a map and find all the brightly lit up neighborhoods, or just snuggle up and watch some holiday specials on TV.

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I've thrown a few parties this season. I like to have my friends over for an annual  ornament making party with their kids, and this year, with my husband's travel schedule for work, it didn't look like we were going to be able to have our big bash. 

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So, instead of my usual weekend dinner party with a bonfire and beers for guys and crafting for anyone who wanted to hang out in the studio, I switched it to a luncheon for some of my friends and ornament making afterwards.  

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 I wanted to try making these tarts, they are thinly sliced veggies, rolled into spirals and baked in a pie crust lined with ricotta cheese.  And I also wanted my friends to know that they are special to me and I wanted to create a treat for them, so I set the table pretty and had them over.

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But we didn't stop there. After school, their kids joined us for more crafting and a few other friends were able to come by to make ornaments too.

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We turned it into a whole evening, ordered some pizzas, drank some wine, and had a cocoa party for the kiddos.

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I set out thermoses of hot milk, a big bowl of marshmallows, organic candy canes, chocolate syrup, and some cocoa powder  and let them serve themselves from the treat cabinet.  

We also broke up candy canes and put those in the cotton candy maker and that was a hit too. Although, at times, the cotton candy maker was left on unattended, and big fluffs of spun sugar would float across the room.  

I was ready to chase those puffs down and try to catch them with my tongue like snowflakes.

(and was glad that I'd covered up my vintage wallpaper with a curtain before setting the cotton candy maker next to it)

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It is always fun to see what everyone comes up with, when presented with a table full of supplies and left on their own.

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Lots of different styles of crafts get churned out.

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But the best part is the laughing.  It was a fun evening.

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I've not finished my shopping or wrapped any gifts yet.  I'll make that work out somehow.  Gift cards for the big kids and a few toys under the tree for kids, probably. This year, I've tried to make the season about the people, not the presents.

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And to have the holiday spirit of sharing and togetherness for the whole month.   

And of course, soak up the joy every single day!

Letting down the kiddos

Dew Drop, family, holiday decor, Sugarwings

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We have the sweetest, most forgiving, grand fairies. I let them down, big time, by forgetting an important item on our Holiday To Do List.  

We have BIG plans for the holiday season this year. I want to do something special every week of December with them.   (these gold flecked sugarplum dresses will be getting a workout for this month)

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Between holiday crafts, gingerbread house building, and cocoa parties, we are also going to Breakfast with Santa at Lionsgate Country Club, to the Lawrence Community Theater's showing of Mary Poppins, and to see Rudolf The Red Nosed Reindeer at the Coterie Theater in  Crown Center, plus the Festive of Trees, and some other fun outings.

One item on the list that I'm really looking forward to is following a map of holiday lights around town.

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But, do to a major effing-up on my part, our schedule of fun events didn't get off to a smooth start.  The girls and I talked all week about going to see Rudolf. Then the night before we planned to go, I discovered that my tickets were for that day,not the next.

Yep, missed it.

But see Dewdrop's sad face? That isn't about the play. She simply gets tired of too many hugs sometimes…  and Sugarwings is a full on, heavy duty, non stop hugger.

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Those girls were soooooooo sweet when I explained that I'd made a huge mistake on the date and we missed the show we were looking forward to.  I didn't hear one single complaint, and no tears fell down cheeks.  I was so pleased and proud to know how understanding and appreciative they are.  We do a lot of fun activities together, but if I thought they were acting like spoiled brats over these outings, we sure wouldn't be doing them.

It is good to see that my grands are big hearted and that they felt bad for me because I was sad about mixing up the dates.  Neither of them felt bad for themselves. (So of course, I felt even worse about my major mistake!)

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So, we decided to find some fun out there some where and headed to Kansas City, even though we were not visiting with our favorite ruby nosed deer.  

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Those little fairy girls didn't care where we went, they were thrilled to wear their new gowns (from Ross Dress for Less for only $18 each) and hang with the old folks for the day.  Especially hanging with ole Mr. Claus. 

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He is set up at Crown Center in Crayola''s Santaland, with lots of giant crayons to climb on.

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And a little crayon house to twirl in.

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We went out to lunch, walked around the mall, (where neither one even asked for a toy) and did crafts at the Crayola store.  Then, later a movie. All in all, a fantastic day.

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( this is the photo before doctoring on picmonkey, where I used bokah stars to lighten it, wrinkle remover to take out the background,  eye tint to remove the last bit of fuscia from Sugarwings' hair, eye tint to soften the banner and the red lights, plus some snow.)

Happy Thanksgiving!

celebrations, Dew Drop, fairies, family, holiday decor, Sugarwings

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Happy Thanksgiving!  I'm hoping that as you read this, my house is all decked and my turkey is roasting in the oven.  But for now (I write these posts ahead of time) I can just day dream of juicy turkey and all the trimmings while thinking about what I'm thankful for.  And hoping to get time to get the tree out and the 6 overflowing boxes of sparkling goodies piled onto it….

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While the furniture is moved around to make space for the upcoming tree, we decided to take advantage of the space and have a dance party. I looped a strand of rope lights around the room, gathered up the grand fairies, and hit the button on what my husband thinks is the world's most annoying toy.

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It's loud, it's obnoxious, and WE LOVE IT.  That is, the girls and I. Not so much their grandfather. But he will dance with us.  I bought it for half price and with a 30% coupon off that price at Kohls. And I think the ten bucks is a  much better investment than the two year gym membership that I bought.  This little machine is a big workout.

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We are learning to dance, "North Pole Style."  Here I am shovelling snow. We also get to chase snowflakes and catch them on our tongue, go ice fishing, jiggle like Santa's tummy, and plenty more cool dance moves. 

(I bought these slinky,fuzzy jammies at the same 50% off, then 30% off sale at Kohls, and have been very popular with Dewdrop when I wear them. She thinks I am some sort of a human stuffed animal and won't stop petting me.)

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I think she is pretty snuggly too.

Enjoy your turkey and your thanking.  I know I have a lot of things to be thankful for. 

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And if you are in the mood to get ready for the holidays, I have some kits available (with more to come).

I'm calling these Tart Tin Tassels.

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Both kits are available in the Boutique. 

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Along with these fairy kits from Birdsong.  Wouldn't they make adorable Elves on Shelves???

I'm doing that with one of them this year.

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I'm also planning to fill a silver tree with them.

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Or if you'd prefer to buy something ready to go instead of making it, I've got one ornie listed in the Etsy shop and hope to get more up soon.  

Also, I have seats left in my Romantic White Christmas workshop at the studio on Friday Dec. 5.  Maybe I'll see you in Lawrence??

 

Big, Fat, Travel Journal and how-to’s- Part Two and some digital photo vacation tips

Books, family, guncles, how to's, photography, Travel

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Where were we? Oh yes, in the middle of the travel journal.  This book is made the way I did the Nature's Blessing Journals for the swap, and there are directions on how to make these type of books from scratch in my online tutorial, here.

In the tutorial, are  ideas on finishing pages too, if you'd like more details to make one of your own.

This page is showing the inside of a card that Guncle Randy made for me. So I added pictures to it from our Bachelor Party Craft Day.

The polka dot and glitter tape borders are from the dollar bin at Target, what a deal!

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Here it is with the card that he made for me closed.  Greeting cards are great to add to journals and scrapbooks, you glue down the back and can add to the inside of them.

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During our craft day in Mt Dora, we worked on Randy's wedding decor. So I used some of the fall toned paper from the projects to make this page. Over it, is a leaf (outlined in brown marker for a shadow effect) from the velvet hat he bought,  instant photos from that day, a heart shaped shell I found on the beach,  and one of the mini garlands we were making for his centerpieces.

I tied a bit of baker's twine to the two little wooden skewer sticks, glued them down, then glued the garland pieces right on to the string.  For the centerpiece, I punched holes in the leaves with words and tied them to the string, but this way seemed to be a better fit for the book.

The words, "Mount Dora" were cut out of a brochure we picked up.

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On the adjacent page, I used an October book page from a garden journal to make a background and pocket. I inked the edges in green, and highlighted "October" with Stickles glitter.

With Tim Holtz Distress markers, I drew a pink cottage and Karen's sweet poodle. I like those markers for this kind of work, because you can still see through them to the text below.  For detail, I used a black ink pen and opaque white  marker.

The pocket is perfect for business cards I gathered while shopping downtown.

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Another way to use greeting cards, is to punch holes in them and tie them directly into the book itself, instead of gluing them down to the pages.  At the Ringling Bros. museum, I picked up a couple circus cards and tied them into my journal.  I covered the inside with brochure pages from the museum, added photos, and colorful rick rack trim.

I thought the polka dot tape was festive and circus-y too.

The sunshine yellow flower got a clown face center.

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I thought that the outside of the card was plenty cute, and left it as it was. A few ruffles was all it needed.  Not every bit of the book needs to be covered. 

On the opposite page, I used the museum grounds map as a background for photos. The pictures are outlined with brown to make them stand out a bit.

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This is a map of the coast, with a few photos, accented with polka dot tape.  I cut the figures out of one picture and shadowed them by outlining with the brown marker.  And added a ruffle and a half flower to the bottom.  

When I do the backgrounds, I like torn edges, and keep it all a little rough, not perfectly cut.  I also like to have lots of peek-a-boo bits like the ruffle and flower petals.

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This one was fun.  Bobbie and Sissy were posed in front of a giant lobster, and I slipped their cut out silhouettes under a netting from an old hat, and added my picture over it for dimension.

The netting is held down at the top and bottom with a piece of glued down ribbon.

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Here is a close up to see the details.

I might have liked this one better if I'd used a blue background, but I layered it back at the hotel room, then when I got home and went through the photos, these are the ones I thought would be cute on this page. Brown is okay, and since it wasn't planned ahead, I had to make it work. But if I had it to do over again, I'd have used blue.

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Sometimes it is nice to have some simple pages, like this travel brochure page with a ruffled ribbon and a single outlined photo, then an unadorned greeting card from the circus.

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Here, I have folded a piece of paper in half, and glued down the back of it. Ribbons are glued to the front and back to make a tie, and charms we found at a Sarasota bead shop are added to the ends of the ribbons.

I bought a vintage photo album at a junk shop and the beach pictures from it were the perfect addition to many of  my pages.  One is used here with lace medallions as trim.

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When the folded blue paper is untied and opened,you can see the picture inside.

Another full photo with a beach view is above it, and is outlined with blue.  The figure next to it is cut out for variation.   I find it more interesting to have different shapes and sizes of pictures than to show the same beach background over and over, exactly the same behind each person.

Now, I just love beaches to death, but for the sake of the art journal, this layout is a little more interesting than a row of same size, same background pictures.

A stip of polka dot tape makes a simple, and easy border. With a marker and white opaque ink, I've highlighted the words, "sea princesses" that I saw in the text of the old paper that I was using.

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One afternoon of our trip was spent driving around and looking up past addresses of our Great Grandma Nellie, Great Aunt Caroline, and Grandma Smith.  

When I saw this sheet music with Nellie in the title, I knew I wanted to use it for this day. I added a vintage ocean picture, and cut out three girls from very old magazine to glue over it, then wrote the addresses we'd looked up on the rest of the paper.  

 I doodled shells, and hearts around the words, and then added some glitter and a rhinestone.

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Part of my trip included a flight from Florida to New Hampshire for the Guncles wedding. While it makes an odd color palette for the book ( sunny beach tones and fall hues) it was even weirder to pack the suitcases for both climates.

Here, I have some pumpkin themed tissue paper crumpled up and glued down as a background, and over that, I've added photos and some velvet flowers from a hat Randy found while we were out shopping in Mt. Dora.

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The adjacent page matches, and has a banner cut out of the wedding announcement.

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A photo from the ceremony is layered over the program, with some lace trim, and orange velvet ribbon, topped off with more blooms and an autumn butterfly.

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This page is a plain, wallpaper backdrop, with four fun photos. I left all four of them intact, but notice that I did cut them to slightly different sizes? Each is outlined in ink to make them stand out a bit, and one page has some doodles down the side of the pictures.

 Here are some tips I follow for digital photos while on vacation:

  • Pack your battery charger!
  • If you are using your camera phone, edit the pics with something like the Snapseed ap before posting them. Crop, brighten and sharpen for better photos.  
  • For your phone or camera both, DELETE all noticeably bad pictures daily. Blurry, unfocused, bad angles, snaps should   be cleaned out to save space, and to save time when you are ready to upload to your computer at home.
  • I email myself the photos I want to keep from my phone, then open them on my computer when I get home.  I then delete most of the photos from the phone, so that I don't have so many on there that I can't find the faves that I want to see.
  • Take a lot more photos than you think you will need.  This will give you more to chose from.  
  • When you get back home and upload, be selective with the pictures.  If you've taken hundreds, narrow it down to dozens. Really.  I know it is hard, but honestly, you will enjoy having the best ones to keep and you don't need so many duplicates.  Pretend you are at an optician's exam.  Remember how the Dr. will ask, "This one? Or this one?"  With multiple photos of the same scene, clean out by comparing them one at a time, to chose the best couple from the multitudes.
  • But watch out for hidden goodies!  If you have a group shot and one person has made a face, another has her eyes closed, and a third is drop dead gorgeous, consider cropping the picture to be a close up beauty shot of just the stand out person. 
  • Here is a big one for me, I tend to tilt my camera a lot. So, I have to be careful to straighten each picture before cropping.  Its very distracting to see the ocean in the background sliding away to the side of the picture.  A straight horizon line with water is very important.  Same with ceilings and walls for indoor shots.  
  • After straightening, figure out what needs cropped. Crop some pics in close, and leave the backgrounds in others.  You'll want variety.  But if there is a big expanse of ceiling showing, ten feet of driveway in front of your subjects, or a plain, boring wall, get rid of it. Keep backgrounds that are attractive, or tell a story about where you are. But if the backdrop is unnecessary, crop and focus on the subject of the picture.
  • I like Picmonkey for my editing. The site is self explanatory and easy to use. 
  • When editing, use Tooth Whitening sparingly.  Yes, make the subject more attractive, but don't make them look unnatural. Same with Eye Bright.  And while I'm sure everyone would appreciate less wrinkles, please don't iron out the faces to look like the person is one of those bad, "After" pictures in a spread on plastic surgery gone wrong.
  • My favorite use for Wrinkle Remover is to blur backgrounds to really make the foreground pop.
  • If there is a glaring color that stands out in the background, like an orange sign peeking through a pretty tree scene or a bright blue shirt on someone walking by in the distance, I go to Eye Color, and chose gray to draw over the bright color and tone it down.  I don't want the veiwer's eye to be led to something that stands out and distracts from the subject of the photo.
  • If you are planning on using the pics in a scrapbook like I did, make sure you leave room for cutting them down to various sizes after they are printed. If you overly crop, and then print them all the same size, you have no space left to cut them down to make some smaller for the album. And I think that the albums look much more interesting with a mix of sizes.

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ps- Want to come to my cottage studio for a Christmas class? I have two available, how to see you here!

Inside a big, fat travel journal- Part One (with LOTS of How to details) and a story of bravery

Books, family, Travel, vintage paper/collage art

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In the last few years, travel journals have become a big part of my vacations. I like to take an empty book and a box of supplies (I used those clear plastic bins with snap on lids, that are about shoebox size), and gather tidbits of goodies along the trip to add to the pages. 

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Now that I have a retro style instant camera (from Michaels)  I can add some pictures as I go. But I limit myself and don't put too many in, I save plenty of space in the book for other photos once I get home.

On these pages, I used a tourist map of the area, torn out of a free guidebook.  I glued down shells from a shopping trip in Venice Beach, and a sunshine yellow flower from a hat my sister, Bobbie Sue brought to me.

(Can you see more blooms from this hat peeking out of other pages? What I've done, is to kind of stair step style, layer the flowers over the pages,so that they make a row of petal ruffles that show when the book is closed)

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These two pages are covered in crumpled tissue paper that was in a shopping bag.  I've covered a large tag with scrapbook paper, and added some lace, a flower, and birds that I brought with me.  

The name of the restaurant we were eating at in these pictures is hand written because I didn't save anything from the restaurant guide that had the name on it. 

It is fun to add little surprises that remind me of the events, like the tiny alligator I glued on here. The restaurant was on the bay, and my sisters were certain that a gator might climb up the dock at any time.

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When I put down a background, I don't know what photos I will be using on it.  Usually, I gather up papers from the trip, and pack some scrapbook paper and wallpaper, and while I'm relaxing and watching the water, I make backgrounds.  Some pages get details while I'm on the vacation, others get finished when I get home and add pictures.

But I do try to keep in mind where we are going and what we are doing, and semi-plan some pages around the photos I took that day.

On this pocket, I've glued a beach scene from a vintage photo album I found at a junk shop we stopped in. It is lined in ruffled ribbon.

Trim on the bottom of the right hand page is crumpled tissue paper, lace that I brought with me, some shells I picked up, and millinery forget-me-nots.

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I like the shells combined with the flowers, so I used that on a few different pages.

For one thing, I like the way it looks. For another, I think the flowers help keep the shells in place.  Since the shells aren't flat, not a lot of their surface area makes contact with the paper.  Gluing flowers to the shells and to the paper seems to make them have a more secure hold.

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This shark tooth from Venice Beach, also is not flat, so to make it fit more securely, I stuck it into a blob of glue on a piece of brown paper bag.  Then packed sand tightly into the glue to cover the brown paper and to hide the glue.

It was then added to a border of gross-grain ribbon that I tore off the yellow flowered hat my sis gave to me.

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The background here is a place mat from the restaurant we ate at after shark tooth hunting. So, I decorated the page with that fossilized tooth, and photos of us from that day.  

On the right page, I took polaroids of my sisses as we worked on our scrap books, and wrote down funny quotes from them.  I won't show you the whole page, because those aren't the best pics. But I liked them and wanted to use them in the book. They are just private, not to share, since they aren't all that flattering.

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The white paper is that pretty, sparkly stuff.  It reminded me of the Sarasota sand and seemed to fit the picture of Sissy walking there.

The green netting border is the lining from that same yellow flowered hat.  And I found a vintage bird book at the junk shop with the photo album. It was nice to have the old pics of beachy birds to add here and there.

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More crumpled tissue paper from a shopping bag was used for the pages about the three of us sprinkling our Daddy's ashes.  And I cut out the picture of the bottle Sissy carried the ashes in, instead of posting the whole photo of her holding the bottle.  

Some of the photos are matted with sparkling teal paper, others are outlined with blue marker.  I like to vary the size and shape of the pictures I add to the paper.

Bobbie gave me the seahorse sticker, as well as some transparent, sparkly, sticker pages. I cut a strip of that sheer glitter sheet to stick over the words I'd written onto text from an old fairy tale book about a sea maiden.

It says, "good bye," for our Daddy.

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Pockets to hold brochures or receipts are handy to have.

And the mermaid scrap book paper was too pretty to cover up, so I just glued a picture in a corner of the page. And I cut out the silhouette of me on the rocks instead of adding the whole photo with ocean and sky.

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I brought vintage swizzle sticks with mermaids for all three of us to use in our books. And the "beach mist" paper was a soap wrapper from our hotel.

Wrappers, labels, brochures, tickets, postcards are all good things to snag while on a trip to add a sense of location to a travel journal.  

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This page of old fairy tale text about  mermaids was just ideal for my trip! I loved the three sisters in the corner, so left it as is, except for a hint of glitter (which doesn't really show in the photo) 

At the top, I glued a napkin with three more mermaid sisters and embellished them with glitter ink, and rhinestones. At the bottom of the page, is a strip of more rhinestones, and another bundle of flowers and shells.

Handwritten messages are always special and will keep memories of a trip alive.

This one is extra special. I was so proud of my sisters. They love being by the ocean, but HATE getting in the water. They have always refused to even wade in the water. I tease them about ankle sharks, and then swim away and have fun on my own. 

But on this trip, they over came their fears. Off the beach, there was a sandbar, that ran for hundreds of feet.  I waded out to it, and walked around out there, feeling like I was on the edge of the world.  Being so far out, away from the beach, but being in water only a few inches deep was just magical.  It was such a beautiful experience, I wanted to share it with my sisters.

Now, I don't think I bullied them…. but I really wanted them to have the same joy I did.  And our father loved walking on the sandbar years ago, and had asked that we take his ashes there.

I thought I'd be taking the ashes out on my own.

 But they surprised me.

Our mom had raised us to fear everything, but I have forced myself to ignore that voice in my head.  I don't know if they had realized just how fearful she had made us.  Maybe hearing me talk about our fears helped? Maybe wanting to honor Daddy's wishes gave them courage?

At some points, the sandbar was 30 feet or more away from the shore, but we found a spot where the shallows were only about a 10 foot walk through waist deep water to reach.  We stood on the beach, and Sissy led us in some Tai Chi deep breathing exercises, she said a blessing, and we all marched off into the waves.

I hope they felt the same magic I did out there.  They seemed to have fun. And while I promised to keep an eye on them and help, they were so engrossed in shell hunting that they kept wandering off in different directions.  I told them they were as bad as Sugarwings and Dewdrop and were lucky I didn't give them a time out for heading out in two different directions at once and making me follow them back and forth.  

But then, I realized, they didn't need me.

They were exploring the gulf.  Free from their life long fears.  I don't know if I've ever been so proud of anyone before.

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And look at this. The next day, Sissy was wading out and hunting for shark teeth at Venice Beach. 

Yep, I was very proud.  And happy to have been able to share the experience with them.

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ps- Want to come to my cottage studio for a Christmas class? I have two available, how to see you here!

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And I wanted to let you know that I have some flocked, pink, tiny trees in the Etsy shop now.  They are a bit different than the typical bottle brush trees that I carry.  

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And I have them in two colors of pink.

A Fall Wedding in New Hampshire

celebrations, family, flowers, Food and Drink, guncles, holiday decor, Travel, vintage paper/collage art, We're having a party

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What a perfect place for a wedding!  The guncles have been together for a long time and had a commitment ceremony 17 years ago, but now that they can be legally married, we gathered in NH to celebrate with them.

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We had a rehearsal dinner the night before the event at Ipswich Country Club. And oh my! It was something!

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Great appetisers.

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Exceptional food.

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Wonderful company.  (this is just some of us, I don't have a group shot)

 

And a serenade from Carol Swarbrick Dries (Aunt Carol).  She sang a song that had tears in all of our eyes.  We begged for an encore the next day at the wedding.

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The air was crisp, the leaves were colorful, and the site for the wedding luncheon and ceremony was ideal for the occasion.

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And did I mention that there was carrot cake? My fave! And so pretty with the fall colors.  There wasn't a cake stand, but I slipped a couple of box lids from our centerpieces under it and that made a quick but cute, make shift stand.

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I was so pleased that the boxes we worked on together to make centerpieces looked so festive in the room.

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We also glittered and sponge painted some packages of tissue paper leaves from the dollar bin at Target to sprinkle around the table.  And Randy framed a picture of each guest to create name cards for the seating.

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17 years ago, we had to take apart two bride and groom cake toppers to get two grooms.  Now, the guncles had plenty of toppers to choose from with two grooms. All this one needed was some highlights in one groom's hair and it was ready to adorn the carrot cake.  

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I was honored to be in the ceremony.  The whole time I was up there, I watched Kevin's face and was moved by the emotions he showed.  

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That man is a treasure and we are lucky to have him in our family, and seeing the love and happiness in his eyes that day, moved me to my core.

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 I spent the entire day with red, weepy eyes, but a huge grin on my face at the same time.

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A Fabulous Craft Day Bachelor Party

family, guncles, parties, Travel, vintage paper/collage art, We're having a party

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Our Sister Trip to sprinkle Daddy's ashes also included a bachelor party for the guncles. They live in Jacksonville, but were getting married the next week in New Hampshire. Our fab friend, Karen, has a home in Mt. Dora, which in my mind was about halfway from where we were staying in Sarasota.

In real life, it was a THREE HOUR DRIVE.  And when gettting stuck in traffic on the way home, it was a FOUR HOUR DRIVE.

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Still, the day in Mt. Dora was well worth the time in the car, (although I think I would have preferred a sleep over instead of doing it all in one day.)

We got to meet Queen Satine, one of the most delicate and delightful ladies I've ever known.  

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And experience the loveliness that is Karen's Kozy Kottage.

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Not to mention a sneak peek at her new studio in downtown Mt. Dora.

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Where prettiness abounds.

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 I was touched to see her little pink fairy from Birdsong sitting on a shelf there.

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And a fabulously embellished angel on the wall that she made from a mini how-to that I did when I was visiting her another time.

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Of course, everything about Karen is Fabulous. Just like Guncle Randy.  When they get together, fabulousness starts emitting from them like shining bits of fire from a 4th of July sparkler.

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The bachelor party wasn't a typical one.  Instead of a wild party with cocktails and exotic dancers, we had a craft day.  

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We were working on wedding decor for the big event coming up.

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These large wooden letters are for Randy and Kevin, we painted them metallic and covered them with moss.

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Here is one as it was on the mantel at the wedding.  We also found the perfect, old hat filled with fall colored velvet leaves and blooms, and took it apart to add a few pieces from it to the letters.

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Guncle Randy found the hat on our jaunt downtown to do a little shopping at one of Mt. Dora's cute boutiques. What luck, it was just what those letters needed.  And we had plenty of millinery blooms from it to use in our journals too.

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My gift for the guncles was an album/journal for Randy to fill with wedding mementos.  And I came across the perfect sheet music to use as backgrounds too.  Here are a couple of them.  

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After the wedding, we had another craft day, and I used one  to make this for their album. 

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The craft day bachelor party also included making a garland for the mantel at the wedding, and centerpieces, that I showed you before, here.

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Plus home made goodies from Karen's pal and our new friend, Julie. She even made us jams and apple butter to take home.

Thanks, Karen, for the lovely day!  And thanks, Julie for the lovely treats!

A Farewell to Daddy

fairies, family, Travel

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Our Sister Trip to Florida was such a relaxing getaway.  Our condo was right on the Siesta Key beach, with its soft, white sand.  

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This is where we vacationed with our parents while growing up. Our Grandma lived in Sarasota, and I thought ALL sand looked like powdered sugar when I was a kid.  I was sadly disappointed the first time I went to an ocean beach with ordinary, brown sand.

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My dad loved Siesta Key too.  When he died, he asked that some of his ashes were sprinkled on the sand bar. For years, my sisses and I have been trying to get together to take him there.  This year, we just said, let's just DO it, no excuses, no more waiting till we had time. 

And I am glad we did.

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Sissy brought Daddy in a decorated bottle, and added some glitter.  He was in her purse for part of the trip, and I'm sure he enjoyed going out to dinner with us. Daddy always loved a good restaurant meal.

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 I scrounged for shells to create an angel in the sand  for him, then made a giant heart to center the angel in.

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With the white sand, and white shells, the angel doesn't show up a lot in the photos. Especially with the sun glinting off of the glitter we added around her.  

While shell hunting, I found a sparkling rhinestone earring, and a shell with a hole in it, that the earring poked into perfectly.  That was her bodice.  I also found an old, rusty PBR bottle cap, my dad's favorite beer.  That was added to the top of the sand heart.

Her wings are created from shards of an iridescent lining of some large clam type shell. We also found two of those large shells, still intact, and when opened up they were heart shaped.

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We opened one of them, and sprinkled Daddy's ashes inside, then let him float away as the waves came in over the shell.

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