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How I Spent my Christmas Vacation

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It’s that time again, I am set up for the First Friday weekend at Good Juju.

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And I am ready for Valentine’s Day, with a booth full of hearts, roses, crowns, and cherubs.

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Being in retail causes a twisty relationship with holidays.

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In the midst of Christmas week, I was cutting out hearts.

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You have to be a couple jumps ahead to sell holiday decor, so here I am, still chomping on candy canes and sipping cocoa while I create romantic crafts.

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That’s okay.  I love holidays  and I very much enjoyed my Merry Valentine craft afternoons between Xmas movies with the grand fairies.

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Not the whole week was as much fun as time with the grand fairies or with my craft supplies.  We discovered a major, hidden water leak that had rotted out the whole back wall’s support system in the hearth room.  

Luckily, my talented son was here to carpenter it all back to normal.  In the meantime, we had three days of chaotic mess, door open (or off) in the cold, and expensive Home Depot runs while the guys worked their frozen little bottoms off to get things fixed. 

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The hens thought it was great fun to have an open door to wander in whenever they liked.  And I zipped through taking down all of the Christmas decorations in record time to make space for the guys to work.

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It was pretty bad.  Did I mention the words, rotten, chaos, and expensive? 
Yep, those sum it up.

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But I also have to throw in “blessed”.  

Because, while it was cold, it wasn’t horrible or icy, and the guys could work on the outside. And our boy was willing to extend his vacation to do the emergency repairs.  Who knows how many months it would take to get this fixed if we waited on setting up a contractor?

But with Adam here- 3 days and DONE! 

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I was able to keep right on with my Valentine Christmastime crafting.

 

 

A Cottage Christmas on a Smaller Scale

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We had a very nice, little Christmas.  I think Dorothy enjoyed it more than anyone.  She was gifted an extra large chewy and went wild on it.  By her reaction, you’d  have thought that dog had never been given a treat in her entire life. 

She was overjoyed, hyper, protective, feral, and in shock over her luck, all at once.  She went all crazy eyed and delved into her fortune whole heartedly, even without teeth.  

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The other hounds inhaled their goodies immediately.  I made sure they each got a new toy and a chewy.  Last year, I forgot to buy them presents and they were visibly disappointed that everyone else got something and they did not.

But their favorite part of Christmas? Having Dewdrop here to lavish them with attention.

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She is an adorable charmer and we all loved having her with us.  And the dogs weren’t the only ones who were excited about gifties, this lil sprite was enthusiastic and appreciative over every package, large or small

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One hit (get it, bats, hit?) was Thia’s softball equipment from her years as a player.  Dewdrop now is into the sport and was excited to get a bagful of bats, balls, etc to add to her collection.

I’m afraid the bag itself didn’t fare well over night.   Our dogs have picked up some sort of virus that has been passed from one to the next.  That first night, Christmas Eve, I was caught unaware that this illness was beginning.

Poor Honey had it first.  And the poor sports bag, felt the effects.  I woke up to a big mess that I needed to clear and sanitize before that child saw what had happened to her favorite present!

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I was groggy when I stumbled upon the evidence of what was to become a week of one dog after another spending a couple of days with a tummy ache.

Because the smoke detector had been chirping all night long.  I was the only one who heard it, but I couldn’t reach it until the guys came out with the big ladder to save Christmas.

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Besides those small misadventures, we’ve had a lovely, laid back week of vacation.  Our family gathering was not big this year, and our other people were greatly missed.  

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We had fun outings together to SeaLife and Hallmark Crown Center.  Some movies, a binge of Otter Dynasty (funny, weird, and mesmerizing), played some games, and made some crafts.

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Sugarwings had an idea to make “kindness bags” and distribute them to the homeless on Christmas Day.

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This is also the first year that I’ve treated the week between Christmas and New Year as a vacation myself.  No big organized crafts, building gingerbread neighborhoods, or decorating three kinds of cookies. Meals have been group efforts.

 We have eaten treats gifted to us, I bought a bag of chocolate and only made one cake beforehand.  As teens, the kids could entertain themselves without me orchestrating events to make it all “Christmassy”.  

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Being out of town five of the last ten weeks, plus working in retail the busiest season might have worn me down. I have been very worried about my sister, which tends to slow down all aspects of my world and dampen the colors around me.

We are also planning a camper trip to Florida (and Disney!) so I am trying to get my Good Juju inventory prepped and ready for both January’s and February’s sales before hitting the road.

I learned that Christmas can be magical without all of the mechanics I typically am working.  Not that I ever minded all of the work I’d put into the holiday, I loved every minute of it.  And I have learned that I can also love a more laid back celebration too.

Perfect was never a goal, that’s unattainable, and a recipe for disaster.  My goal was always to keep things festive.  And I think my grandfairies have that skill within themselves by now.

Because festiveness most certainly occurred and I mostly sat back and relished in it. 

Merry Christmas!

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I hope you are having a blessed and Merry holiday.

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Our boy and the littlest Grandfairy will be here with us.

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We hope to have lots of cocoa parties, cookie decorating, and family walks in the woods.

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Fin will visit, and Sugarwings’ mama will be here, unless a mom needs her to catch a newborn on Christmas.

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We will miss our large group,  this year we are split between different states.

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And a big chunk of my heart is in Indiana with my sisters.  I’m missing them more than usual this season.
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But I know how lucky I am to have a big, loving family, whether we are gathered together physically or just in our hearts.

 

 

A holiday surprise

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Yesterday I returned from another quick trip to Indiana.

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 This time it was to surprise my family at their annual ornament exchange party.

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It has been too long since I’ve been to one.  The last Christmas I remember being there was when it was held at my mom’s.  And that was before Sugarwings was born.

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Then not too much later, my sisters and started our Sister Trip traditions and we’d typically get time in Florida together each fall. My drives to Indiana came to be made for other occasions, not the holiday party.

I’d missed Christmas time with my extended family and was so glad I made this trip.  The weather was ideal for driving, and for making lots of antiquing stops along the way, I got to see Sissy’s new house all prettied up for the season, and had a week  full of hugs from people I love.

Also, I’d hoped to be of help in getting Bobbie to some of her medical appointments while I was there.

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Bobbie’s health had some hiccups and instead of helping with the drives, I was keeping her company in the ER and ICU.  Since I’d driven, I was able to have my car filled with craft supplies, and I could bead and sit quietly while she slept.  I didn’t want her to make efforts to talk, she needed her rest, so I sat with her and made bracelets.

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Lots of bracelets.  With mostly genuine stones, along with vintage crystals. With only two visitors allowed at a time, I also  made a work station for myself in the lounge and crafted there while others had their turns in her room.289BCC4C-A34C-410D-8376-34F908A50BCC 
All of us wanted to be there for her, she is so loved.

During her Thanksgiving hospital stay, doctors would always be surprised to see such a large entourage in the room.  She was in a different (and closer to Pendleton) hospital this time and that made it even easier for guests, two of her kiddos work at this one and could drop in throughout the day.  

But we mostly had to gather in the waiting rooms because of the two at a time limit.
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Overall, it was such a pleasant hospital to spend time at.  Great people, excellent care, comfortable surroundings, tasty food.  I liked the spacious rooms they put Bobbie in, and how attentive they were to her.

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Is it wrong to say how much I enjoyed being there with her, even though she felt so miserable?  That sounds wrong.

Of course, I’d rather be anywhere else with her, healthy and strong, anywhere at all! 

 I guess I mean that even though I’m devastated, worried, and terrified about her health, I loved my time there with family and being able to be part of their holiday tradition, and to sit with everyone while Bobbie was getting the treatments she needed to feel more comfortable.

 Instead of flying, I drove out, leaving my time open ended.  Once she was moved out of ICU, I needed to force myself to head back to my own holiday traditions and be with my grandfairies, no matter how much I hated to tear away.  Oh my gosh, it was so hard to leave.  I wish I wasn’t so far away, and could be one of those daily visitors that pop in to hold her hand and ask her about her appetite or tell her a story about their day.

She has a big crew of loving people around her.  I also wish I could be helping them out, with all of the extra jobs they have taken on to be of service and get our Bobbie feeling better.

Now, I am hitting the ground running, getting things ready for our own Kansas Christmas, looking forward to seeing the grandfairies open gifts, play reindeer games, and decorate cookies.

But I’ve left a chunk of my heart back home in Indiana.

Happy 55th, Bobbie and Doug

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While my sister was in the hospital, it was her 55th anniversary, and a nurse wrote a congratulatory greeting on the board.  Doug was so touched, he mentioned it to everyone who came in to the room that day.  So when I ran into that same nurse in the cafeteria, I was pleased to be able to buy her lunch as a thank you.  Any little cheery moment is a plus when you are with a loved one who is ill.  I wanted her to know we appreciated the gesture.

I added a vase of flowers to the board, and made all of the buds heart shaped.  Bobbie and Doug’s last name is Valentine.

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Did you notice the heart shaped balloon covered in sparkly, rainbow hearts?  I’d been watching it all week, stuck up in this lobby tree.  Shaking the branches wouldn’t free it.  So, on their anniversary, I had to try something else.

That balloon was meant for them!  I was on a mission.

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I looked around for someone with a cane to borrow for a minute, thinking that would be easy to find in a hospital.  But nope.

I did find a sign on a pole in the entryway, and took it apart to use the pole, then climbed up as good as I could, hitting the branches with it.

Still no luck.  But a nurse on her way out stopped to help me shake the tree while I swiped at the balloon string with my sign pole.  Between us, we snagged it and I was able to take it to the love birds who had spent the day adorably holding hands.

I wish I could’ve thanked that nurse with a lunch too.

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Pretty Pendleton for Thanksgiving

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Last year my home town, Pendleton, IN, had a fun FB trend of people photographing their cars, tractors, mowers, etc in the lights of this beautifully lit bridge.  The joke started as serious pics of cool cars shining under the lights and turned into photoshopping weird, silly things.

I enjoyed every post and had to drive by and see this pretty backdrop in person when I visited over Thanksgiving.  Maybe (if I ever get a free moment) I’ll do some photo magic with it myself.

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We had hospital cafeteria food in the guest lounge for Thanksgiving dinner.  While I felt bad leaving my  husband and out of town guests back at my house to turkey wrangle, and the reason for my visit was not a happy one, I still had a wonderful time with my sister’s family while eating grilled cheese instead of a more traditional meal.

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My sweet boy hadn’t seen his aunt Bobbie in a while and hadn’t been able to drive all the way to Kansas from North Carolina for the holiday, so he took the opportunity to meet me in Indianapolis.  Much closer!

I rarely get time with my son, this was precious to me.  It’s been a good year for spending days with him.  In August, Rich and I saw Adam in NC and I got to go rock and mushroom hunting with him.  Then in September, he came to KS to put in a studio floor for me. Now, an Indy trip too.

And soon, he will bring Dewdrop for Christmas!

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He and I weren’t Bobbie’s only visitors, by far.  Every time a doctor came into the room, he’d do a double take at the size of her entourage.

The room was always so full, that seating was scarce.  You know that Netflix show, “Is it Cake?” I was always playing, “Is it a Chair?” in the hospital room.  We sat on many non seats for seating.  Bobbie one time mentioned we could use the beeping from her machinery to switch seats in a musical chair game.

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My witty, kind hearted sister is keeping good spirits through her illness.   I admire her for that, just as I have always looked up to her and learned so much from her all of my life.

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I adore my sissies, what wonderful friends they are to me.

 

 

 

Magic time with family

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My Florida trip was a week long, divided into three separate adventures that each went by too quickly.

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After a spectacular Guncle evening, Terry and Holly picked me up in Jax to drive to Orlando.  And you know what happens there, right?  

Disney Magic!

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They treated me to the Grand Floridian, and its reputation is well deserved.  So many subtle, understated and sweet nods to Disney classic movies while keeping its Grand and classy ambiance.  
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A grown up trip to the parks can be very laid back and comfy.  I had two mornings on the balcony with my coffee to relax and simply enjoy being there. Very different than my typical trip, trying to squeeze in as much as I possibly can from the crack of dawn til I fall in bed after midnight.

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Although, our first night did go pretty late, but we didn’t get started til evening, and once arriving at Mickey’s Halloween party, we ambled about and took our time.  We managed to eat some of the special goodies, do some trick or treating, and practically walk on to every ride we wanted to go on.  Lines were minimal, the weather was perfect, friends were delightful, it could the most ideal night at Disney that I could have.  (Even though I missed the grandfairies.)

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We had discussed Halloween costumes, but that frizzled out, Terry was moving into a new home, I was redoing my studio.  Then I thought I’d order Sleeping Beauty Fairy shirts with our names, but instead of Merriweather, Terryweather.

Ran out of time, though.  So I looked around town the day before leaving to find Hocus Pocus matching shirts, no luck.

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When Terry arrived, I was happily surprised to see that she’d found a trio of cute Sanderson shirts for us!

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Terry and Holly are ideal partners at the parks, both love the place as much as I do.  They’ve been multiple (zillions) of times, so aren’t rushed, or worried about missing anything. We can check out attractions we’d like to see, or just snack at Epcot Food and Wine and chill out.

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I got to see the new, Moana area, and can’t wait to take Sugarwings to it.  
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And we lucked into a walk up reservation at the new space station restaurant.

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We were seated in the lounge, which I discover was another lucky break.  There, you have a view of the entire room, and the astronauts working outside the windows.  Plus the menu options are better, no set choices.  
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Holly and I were able to split a meal.  And look- a Mickey shaped fillet!

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Our time together was as wonderful as the dessert.  Thank you, Terryweather and Holly for such a treat of a visit.  You guys bring the magic with you!

Venice Beach seashell fairy

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My trip to Florida was just the best.  It was broken up into segments, a Guncle visit with crafting, Disney with Terry and Holly, then beach time with Sissies, Aunties, and sweet nieces.

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We stayed at Turtle Beach on Siesta Key, and while I loved the company, I wasn’t thrilled with the beach, my shelling was limited until we took a day trip to Venice to hunt for shark teeth.

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Hey, I do not mean to sound down on Turtle Beach, it is a lovely spot.  I had just never stayed there, and expected a similar experience from further north on the island where we usually stay.  It was so nice to be directly on the water and to walk right out on the sand.

Venice just happened to have more shells.  And Shark Teeth, too!  I found a couple but was more interested in making my beach fairy there.

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And I found a treasure trove of broken shells to use.  I think the wings are some of the nicest I have ever found.  I was tempted to pocket them, but I like to leave my Faye behind as a thank you to nature, and pulling off her wings did not feel right at all.

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Lots of shells do come home with me, but those haven’t been used to create my little friends yet.  I did gather up a lot of potential fairy shells last year to make resin shell fairies at home, but they are still packed away, waiting their turn to get Pinocchio-ed into being.  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

KC Renfest and unique hearts from Ryan

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Renfest season is here!  Sugarwings and I snagged a little getaway time and spent a couple of hours wandering around the grounds.

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The kiddo isn’t such a kid now (17) but still my partner in adventures.

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Both of us are more into exploring the sights than being fairies now.

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There are still plenty of laughs and silliness though.

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I have always loved the art and architecture that makes this place special.

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The details, big and small.

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And the characters.

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We even saw a couple of the Sanderson Sisters.

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It’s the first year that Sugarwings wasn’t into dancing around the maypole with the fairies.  Although we did do a dance together along the sidelines.

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We were nostalgic, talking about when Kya worked as a henna artist, when Sugarwings’ daddy participated in building the stone castle and sold his art there, when we’d come as a big family group, all fairied up in glitter and wings.

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And we talked about the year Ry Guy came along to help me when I was on my own with two tiny grandfairies.  He was never a person who did well among hoards of people, but he loved those little princesses and was a trouper that day.  

It was extremely crowded, and extra hot that afternoon.  The kids were great, we did have fun, but it was past nap time and past Ryan’s crowd quota.  So we headed out before we became too overrun with heat and frayed nerves, leaving at just the perfect point, when everyone was still in good moods.

But then, oops.

Where on Middle Earth did we park?

Years ago, I had a car that I simply never recognized. I lost it quite often.  Once even getting into the driver’s seat of someone else’s car as they were loading a baby into the back.  We both screamed like that scene in ET when Drew Barrymore saw the alien for the first time.

Anyway, my car was lost in the over full, giant parking lot, and we slowly slid past the time when everyone was “still in a good mood.”

After 40 minutes of trudging through heat and dust, pushing a stroller and wanting to leave, we realized we’d walked right on by that car many, many times.  Over the years, that became one of those jokes Ryan and I had between ourselves that we would reference and laugh about.  Uhm, not that day, though.

Sugarwings didn’t remember that part of it, but we laughed together when I told the story.

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Then my little sprite, who is always looking for glimmers from Ryan, pointed out these hearts.  My horror story loving boy would have loved those!  

Guncles in Kansas

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We had a Guncle-riffic visit last week.  They spent half the time with us, the other half with close friends in KC.  Their last night in Lawrence included a birthday party for that couple, who are family to the guys.

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Now, down on Sweet Cherry Lane in Jax, the tablescapes and delicious food are legendary.  Randy keeps his dining table set on a regular basis and then goes even more all out when guests arrive.

 And the food, oh my.

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So while they were visiting, I had Randy help me set my table.  
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Our big craft project had been to restyle some violins.

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So we incorporated those along with some violin sheet music.

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We had a small group at a large table, and only needed to decorate half of it.  Kevin makes the best German chocolate cake, so that got center stage on the other half.

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Dinner was a luscious lemon chicken.  And the company?  The best!

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