The Art of Rejection and Sugarwings thinks that nothing is more fun than a wrestling rat
Etsy Goodies, magazine pictures or articles, Sugarwings, vintage paper/collage art
Ever have something for sale that you know that you just love and wonder why no one seems to be interested in it? I had this hand made folder, made with some pretty wallpaper and hand painted roses for sale, and the listing just expired.
So, I took a look at the photos, and decided it was not well represented. A little dark, not clear enough, bad background, and the ephemera it was packed with looked messy.
These are the re-do photos.
I rearranged the ephemera to a prettier order, added a vintage brooch to the tulle bow, and lowered the price. Now, if it sells, how will I ever know which trick was effective? well, you just don’t anyway. You do what you can to make your pictures and your prices as attractive as you can and then you cross your fingers! You just hope someone likes what you put out there.
And as an artist, you have to learn to have a thick skin about rejection.
I’ve been the juror at enough art and craft shows, screening the people who apply to sell their work, to know that "no" doesn’t mean "yuck". It means, "not right for this right now."
I’ve turned away really good art, that wasn’t right for an art festival. Or I have been working at a gallery, hanging a show and just have to leave out a piece that was nice but that wasn’t fitting in.
I guess what I am trying to say to other artists out there, is don’t be discouraged. Keep trying, keep making the things you love and keep looking for your audience.
Rejection is never easy, but after so many years in the business, it honestly doesn’t bother me the way it did when I was younger. I’ve learned that if a piece doesn’t fit in one place, usually it will fit into another.
Or if it doesn’t sale, the right buyer still hasn’t seen it.
Or maybe I didn’t display or photograph it as well as I should, or had the price correct, or have it for sale in the right venue.
Or maybe the piece needs a bit of tweaking and a slight redo.
Other times, I just need to admit that maybe the piece wasn’t as good as it could be, and it just wasn’t going to sell anyway. That’s the hardest one to learn.
So, I redid and relisted the folder on Etsy. And my magic wands that Somerset is sending back I will list also.
Somerset Life is using some of my folders in the next issue. Also, a framed baby doll dress is still there with them, and I think that they will be using this memo board.
I made the memo board from old ceiling tin cut to fit this frame. The magnets are buttons, jewelry and millinery flowers.
I’ll let you know if they plan on using it for the July issue. As an artist, sometimes you can feel like you hear "no" more than any other word!
As a grandma, you hear it a lot too. Sugarwings is in a "NO" mood today and yelled it at everyone and everything.
So what do you do with a contrary baby who is tired of being cooped up inside on a cold, wintry Midwestern day?
Chinchillas and canaries at Pet Smart are as exciting to a one year old as a trip to the zoo would be to an older kid. It got all of us out of the house and smiling.
ps- the wallpaper folder is sold and is on it’s way to Jeanne!







I have news- my latest story is out!! Romantic Country is on the stands now, I picked up this issue at Borders.









My little helper was pretty impressed with the results too. 













(before the rug was Twinklized) 

I took the stained glass lamp from the dining room and moved it upstairs to the library.


















































And one more "one more thing" this is what I sent to Priscilla, who won the Sept. giveaway.










I can’t show you the pictures, but can give you a tease with this slice of one.
Don’t forget you can still enter the Sept. drawing for a giveaway choice of a Cottage Collage kit with vintage wallpaper, or a hand made item from one of my kits!
