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Adventuring with Grand Fairies- tips and tricks for Disney with little girls

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The Grand Fairies and I went on an adventure.

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The 3 of us flew to Orlando together and spent a couple of days at Disneyworld.  I was impressed with how smoothly it all went, considering it was spring break time, and we weren't the only ones who had the idea of going there then.

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There were a few struggles, but nothing we couldn't handle.

Lost rental car keys? Take a bus. (There is great, free transportation from the Disney hotels to the park, it was actually easier than driving)

Chilly weather? Lots of layers. Lots.

Bag too heavy? Rent a stroller to carry it.  

Kids too tired? Trade that single stroller in for a double and push those kids around, remembering to call it a carriage, NOT a stroller. Who cares if they are "too old" to be in one, it made the day much more pleasant for us all, and those strollers glide so easily, that it was no problem for me to manage it. It was actually more convenient to have the girls seated together as the day progressed and the crowds grew larger and larger and larger and larger.

Crowded restaurants at lunch time? Find a kids' zone to color in and wait til it clears.  Patience and distractions got us through wait times, along with a bag full of snacks, and water bottles.

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We took breaks and kept it as chill as we could.  We arrived early to our scheduled events, like our dinner at Cinderella's castle, and read books or played games on ipads to rest up before the party started.  For the "Wishes" fireworks show, we found a cozy spot with a family chock full of little girls nearby and hung out for an hour before the show began, for a perfect view, enjoying just BEING there, while making friends.  

Our sidewalk neighbors were Muslim (I'm guessing on this) and didn't speak English, I'm not sure where they were visiting from, but I got a kick out of watching Dewdrop befriend them, even with a language barrier.  They were joined by a couple Hispanic girls behind us, and it became a little United Nations of princess talk and giggles.

One trick I regret not using on this trip, was watching the parade from Frontierland instead of Main Street. It begins in Frontierland and the crowds are much smaller there.  We didn't have a good view this time, and it was my own fault for not getting to a good spot early. Because it is hard to see the show if you haven't staked out a place ahead of time.

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My thought is that a trip to Mickey's place isn't a contest to see how much you can do to "get your money's worth", a day in the park is meant to be completely enjoyable and fun, not rushed and crazy.

I plan ahead as much as I can to make the most of the time, but we leave plenty of space for just plain old sightseeing, hanging out, and rolling with the day.   We spent the entire day in Fantasy Land and Tomorrow Land, without seeing a single other area, and didn't care. So what if we didn't see it all in one day?

What we saw, and what we did was amazing!

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My biggest tip for a good day at the park is to make the most of fast passes and use the Disney park ap on your phone to keep them updated, as you use them up, you can book more. Also you can check wait times on all rides so you know where you can get in quickly without waiting for crowds.  We never waited more than 10-15 minutes throughout the day, unless we were purposely taking a break.

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And if you can't get reservations for the meals you want, keep trying. Even during spring break's larger than usual crowds, we were able to dine at Cinderella's Castle as well as in Belle's.  Both were full up when I first checked, but I made a point of looking online for openings periodically the month before we left and eventually, spots opened up both places we wanted to go.  

(okay, I admit that I was a bit obsessed with that, and some days, I checked the dining reservation site 5 times a day)

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Another tip that I found helpful was dressing the girls alike.  I dread the day they won't let me do this anymore, because it sure makes it easier to find them in crowds.  I always make sure I am wearing something colorful myself, so they can spot me easily too.  When they get too sophisticated for twin outfits, maybe we will all chose a family color to wear when we go to zoos or amusement parks.  

I have never splurged on taking the girls to the Bippity Boppity Boo salon, but I do buy them each a new dress for our visits.  Kohls has the cutest Disney lines of clothes, and with their sale prices, I got two dresses from the Beauty and Beast collection that will be worn over and over and over for much less than I'd have paid for a gown from the salon.  And I knew the girls would be comfortable for the day. Some of those gowns that are sold in the park are too flimsy to be warm in the early mornings and after dark, but look hot in the middle of the day when the sun is out. 

We went on St Pat's day, and I checked out the Dollar Spot at Target before we left for some light up necklaces and crowns to celebrate in an affordable way.  We also packed glo-sticks from the dollar store to give us some sparkle once night time came.  

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If you want to get into the park early to get decent photos of the castle before Main Street becomes shoulder to shoulder traffic, you should go early and be there when it opens (or before).  We were lucky that the Extra Magic Hours (a free hour to go early or stay late at a park) happened to co-inside with Magic Kingdom that day.   Sometimes the park that has the Magic Hours isn't the one you have tickets to, they change daily.  And you have to stay at a Disney hotel to get that free hour.

Or you can book a reservation at a restaurant in the park, for an early breakfast and get in early that way.  When you go early, you can often walk right onto rides, no line at all.

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We had no waits at all for Winnie the Poo, Small World, and the merry go round, all in about 35-40 minutes or so.   We even rode Small World twice. And you are welcome for the gift of that song in your head for the rest of the day, it is still in mine, we rode it later that day too. Twice. Yes, it will be in my head til the end of time after that, but I kinda like it, so didn't mind.

Here is another tip- if your kids are into gymnastics, and trapeze like mine are, please council them before getting on the carousel about not standing up and doing tricks on the horses.

The operator stopped the ride to talk to these two after they were caught showing off their circus skills as the ponies went round and round.  And funny enough, they hold the ride up for a LONG time talking to the kids, they didn't simply tell them not to do it, or to get off. I was surprised by the length of the lecture.  Or did it just seem like it was forever because they were all pointing to me in the crowd as the reprimand was going on?

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A lot of time waiting can be spent looking for Hidden Mickeys too. I don't know if this counts as one, but it was delicious anyway.

This was the first time we used the Disney dining plan, we chose "quick service" which is the lower end one.  And we were not able to use it for the upper priced meal at Cinderella's castle, so we had extra meals on it. The quick service plan was honored at Belle's castle tho, and the meal even came with this bonus tray of pastries.  

We also shared two meals three ways a couple of times.  And didn't really buy much in the way of snacks.  So, was purchasing the meal plan worth it? Well, it ended up being so for us, because we met up with Dewdrop's mama the day after we went to Magic Kingdom and I paid for them to go to Animal Kingdom together, and the credits on the meal plan carried over for them to use.  The points were good until midnight the day you check out of the hotel and could be used at Disney Springs too. Sugarwings and I went there to hang out, had some dinner, and bought snacks to go to use up some of the credits.  We ate caramel apples at our beach hotel for the next couple of days.  

But for just one adult and two little fairies, for just two days, it wouldn't have been a good deal,  it was too much food for the three of us.  I don't know if I'd do it again or not.

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 Check out was at 11, and we were able to get a later one, (request a later check out upon checkin, don't wait!) so we spent time at the pool at our hotel, then spent the rest of the day at Disney Springs, seeing Beauty and the Beast and having dinner.  That gave us an extra day to use up the meal plan, and we shared it with Dewdrop's mama, but it was still hard to finish up all of the credits without stuffing ourselves.  

Here is something I learned about the dining plan we were on.  10 years old is ADULT PRICED!  But- when I used the dining plan, it wasn't divided up between "adult" or "child" meals. There were two credits each, each day for just a meal, plus snack credits and a refill cup good for use at the hotel only, but it was great for refilling with ice water- free at any counter service restaurant.  

We could order two adult meals and split them three ways, and could order the highest priced meals on the quick serve menu. 

BUT- you have to purchase a meal plan for each person in your hotel room. So, the only way I see doing this again would be if I had two separate hotel rooms, and we shared a meal plan somehow. Or once the kiddos are older and eat more, it would be worth it. For now? Not for us.   

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We stayed at one of the "value" priced hotels and it ended up being the favorite of any we'd been at. At least from the kiddos point of view. (I've stayed at the Animal Kingdom resort with my sis, Terry, and I can't say any hotel anywhere is better than that one!) 

This one, Art of Animation, was over the top gaudy, bright, fun, and full of 3 story high characters the kids love. So, it was an ideal choice, was much less expensive than any of the other hotels I've stayed in there, and it made the grand fairies VERY happy.  The pools were such fun that we wished we had more time to stay there.  The hotel itself was a blast for the littles, although it might have been a bit much if my husband had come along.

It was at least $150 less per night than the medium value hotel we usually go to (Caribbean Beach).  That alone was good for me, the girls loved the Ariel decor, and the bus to the Magic Kingdom was direct and quick.

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A tip I got from my sis, the Disney master (Terry) is to get a fast pass to see Belle's tales.  It is a cute, interactive play and every child gets to be in it, meet Belle, and get a free book mark.  That is much more interesting than simply standing in line to meet a princess.

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If you do a character meet and greet or one of their meals, pick up a note book from the Dollar Spot at Target, or somewhere else with bargain prices so the kids can collect autographs.  No reason to buy one for $10 or more at the park. And Target has Disney themed books that are every bit as cute.  My girls saved the signature pages to make a scrap book with the photos I took of them meeting their royal friends.

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Here is another tip- pick up extra maps, they get torn up, lost, and fought over if you don't.  No reason to play tug of war with one if there is an unending supply.  

Another activity to keep busy between rides is Pin Trading.  The grand fairies like doing it so much, they even traded back and forth with each other all day.

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We had the best time with our stay. I wish it could be longer, I've never taken the little ones when we could go to the park more than one day, the timing just never works out for us. This time, we had an afternoon and evening at the hotel, then a day at the park, and another night at the hotel, then a late check out.

Here is another tip- don't over do it!

We probably could've squeezed in one more day at a park before driving to the beach to meet up with my husband after checking out of the hotel.  But, as tempting as it was, I knew I'd be exhausted if I spent another day in one of the parks, then had a two hour drive to get to our beach hotel afterwards.  Hanging out at the pool and at Disney Springs for a couple of hours was ideal for us, plenty more Disney fun, and no more ticket purchases. There are a lot of fun things to do in the area without buying a ticket. 

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These are all tips that I've learned after taking children a few times, and I know that I am in no way an expert.  I just wanted to pass on some things I've learned along the way.

 

 

Visiting the neighbors

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I miss having horses.  We used to have a wonderful, old barn filled with these creatures with the world's softest noses. 

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Seriously, what is softer than the velvet of a horse's nose????

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But while that barn was wonderful to me, it wasn't exactly stable. Over 100 years old and leaning, it was near toppling over. And the cost to restore it? More than we could handle at the time.

(If I had it to do over again, I'd have taken out a second mortgage, and done anything I could to save it!!)

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It has been gone for years now. And we are horseless.

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But our neighbors have some we can visit!

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 We hopped on the 4 wheeler and drove up the road to call on them, and Sugarwings fell head over heels for the horses. 

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She was in heaven there for the afternoon and keeps asking me why we don't have a "real farm".  

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But as much as I miss having a barnyard full of these guys, I also remember how much work they can be.  

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For now, I'll just consider myself lucky to have neighbors who welcome us when we want to come over and be reminded of how good a horse's neck smells when you put your arm around it and just how velvety their noses are.

 

Sugarwings found my camera

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Sometimes, Sugarwings will find my camera and take a few pictures with it.  Her favorite subject is Dewdrop.

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I don't blame her, what a cute model! Even though the poor kid was sick that day, full of spots from some strange ailment, and just getting over a fever, she was still pretty dang adorable.  

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Aw, poor baby, she felt yucky.  I thought she might have Fifth Disease from the red cheeks, but that didn't last, her spots morphed and moved so much, we didn't know if it was measles, chicken pox, or who knows what. But her fever broke, and she was up and playing, so we weren't too worried.

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Sugarwings also got some still life pictures.

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It's always a pleasant surprise to find photos on the camera from her. I like seeing what she finds interesting.  And the photos aren't bad, either.

Please keep checking back, I do have new stories pre-posted for you to read while I am away. Also, any orders from the Boutique will be shipped on March 28th. Thanks for your patience!

Holiday Mom-style Stress

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What was the best part of your Christmas?

Mine was these smiles.  And lots of them.

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The grand fairies seemed over joyed with all their gifts (even though Dewdrop didn't get the two front teeth that she needed).

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We were blessed with multiple celebrations starting with a Solstice party on the 21st, then our big family dinner and gifts to each other on the 24th.  

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On Christmas morning, we checked out what Santa brought, then had a big, buffet, brunch-bash with relatives.

 

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With a table set for TWENTY THREE!  (Did I mention how much I love my newly enlarged space????)  We snaked three tables through the kitchen into the living room, and all seemed to fit just fine.

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I'd had planned to set the table and make it fancy, but I was lucky to even get food done.  So, everyone had to get their own forks and plates and drinks, which seriously, no one minded, or noticed. There is only so much time, and I overestimated how much time I had.  

Which brings me to admitting that I over extended myself right along with the tables.

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Which I think is pretty typical for the mom of the family to do.  

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After prepping all of the big meals, I was done in.

 I loved, loved, loved, the family parts and the holiday traditions, of the weekend, but I have to say that I didn't enjoy fixing all of the food.   While trying to please everyone and make sure they all got their favorite things, making vegan, vegetarian, meat lover, and gluten free versions of the foods, I forgot to keep my Christmas spirit.  I got tired, I got cranky, I got resentful that I didn't have time to decorate cookies with the kiddos.

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I don't know if it was because I'd been ill this year and am not back to 100%, (a medicine that I am on for another month or so can cause tiredness and muscle aches) or if I'm simply getting older and slowing down, or if I really did over plan and do too much.

Or maybe:

  • I had shoes that were too tight.
  • My head wasn't screwed on right.
  • My heart was two sizes too small.

Cause I acted a little Grinchy while pulling it all together.  I'm a bit ashamed of myself.  

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Yet, on the other hand, I sincerely, honestly love the holidays and it all means so much to me.  I did make a huge effort to stay positive and loving with the grand fairies, but I think I grumped and grinched a bit too much with the older family members and really shouldn't have let that happen.

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And no, even though Honey looks a little like Max here, I didn't force her into pulling a sleigh. I wasn't full on Grinch, just annoyed that the food preparation never seemed to end.  

Like I said, it often is the way of many moms to stress out to make things perfect for Christmas.  Normally, I can kind of roll with it and keep our holiday simple while pretty.  This year, I'm not sure why, but it got away from me, and I was in over my head.

At least I learned a lesson.  Next year we will do a simmering pot of soup instead of a full  restaurant menu with enough food to feed a restaurant full of people.  I have to be able to treat my family special while not forgetting about myself too.  

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Yes, I'll change the  dinner next time, but there isn't one other thing I'd change, it was delightful to be with people I loved and there is nothing better than that.

(and the leftovers were pretty tasty)

 

Gratitude, Joy, Merry, Thanks, and all of those wonderful words we need to use more

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I hope your day is a Merry one! Isn't that a great word?  I love Merry and Joy both, I'm not sure which is my all time favorite word, maybe Joy.  

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We've tried to make each of those words part of our celebrations.  Oh, there have been tummy aches, forgotten homework assignments. a case of the sniffles, and a few reminders that, "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit" here and there, but over all, I'd say the season was a joyful success at the cottage.

I've tried to say YES to any and all holiday activities that come my way, plus make up a few of my own to make Christmas last all month, not just a day.  

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Some days, it can be as simple as a Cindy Lou Who hairstyle after watching the Grinch.  Other days, it is cocoa in front of the tree,  a special night out, or a ride to look at lights.  Big or small, it is the attitude of celebration that brings the fun.

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And while I can't keep up the parties year round (without more naps than I'd have time to take for recovering), I think that we can keep up the Joy if we make our best efforts.  

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I'm thinking about making that my New Year's resolution.  To create a smidgeon of Joy or Merriment in each day.   It doesn't have to be a grand gesture, of course, little things mean a lot. And this happiness should be shared, not saved just for family. It really needs spreading around.

My son is a master of this, and I'd like to emulate some of his moves.  Like always asking the name of a store clerk or waiter and using it is one of his ways of acknowledging others and showing care.

There are many more, like: Simply giving smiles to people you pass, or making a joke on a crowded elevator instead of looking at the floor and just waiting for the door to open.  

Stop yourself from snapping at your kiddo when you've asked them three times to do something, and try singing the request instead.  A silly or unexpected response can turn a day around.

LAUGH!  Even if you are all alone but especially with others.

Give a kiss on the head to someone as you walk by (which I have to admit, is a better idea with family than strangers).  

Post a picture of pure prettiness on FB and bypass those ugly political arguments.  

Compliment when you see something you like, speak up, if a passerby's coat is a great color, or if your husband looks nice in his shirt, or if some one is walking a dog that has very nice manners.  Don't just think it, say it out loud when you see something you like!

Remember the power of please and throw in plenty of Thank Yous.  

And be thankful-to others, to yourself, and to the world and god for what you have. Slow down and be grateful.  Nothing brings more happiness than letting yourself remember  all the reasons you have to give thanks.

I guess I'm saying that I want to work on not just noticing the good things around me, but speaking out about them.  And also creating moments that count, that might lift my own day as well as another's.

Saying YES to Joy.

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Well, maybe I should've saved all of this for New Year's Eve?  No, probably not. It is never too early to get started on spreading cheer.  And maybe I'll start a new tradition for myself- making Christmas Eve resolutions.

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And I'll start my resolution by speaking up about YOU.  Thank you to those who take the time to visit me on my blog, for listening to me blather on about what is on my mind, what I think is pretty, what I've made, or about my family and pets.  

It's been almost ten years of blogging for me and I've enjoyed every minute of it, and I am both grateful and thankful for all of you on the other end of what I write.

Please have the Merriest and most Joyful of Christmases!

 

A quick trip to the Renfest

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 I adore going to the Kansas City Renassaince Festival and most years, spend at least a day or two there during the season.

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But drat it, this year, it got away from us.

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Sugarwings and I popped in the first weekend it was open, thinking we'd be back more later with the rest of the family, not knowing this would be our only visit for this year.

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It was a very fast walk through, with less than two hours to spend there, we were only able to hit some highlights.  She won a friend to wear on her shoulder at the arcades, and named him Pascal, after Rapunzel's salamander.

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She danced with the fairies around the Maypole and once again, I got a photo of her "in flight" with both feet off the ground.

She tends to fly when she is with her fellow faye.

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Most of our time was spent talking to various fairies.

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Or petting dragons.

Our time was over in a flash, but lots and lots of fun happened during that brief blast of time.

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Pumpkin Party

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For breakfast the other day, we had pumpkins made from mandarin oranges.  It took (literally) seconds to do.  The sections of oranges stack up easily, and I put a cashew on the top as a stem.

The grand fairy ghouls didn't have school on Friday, and I was about to fly off to Florida for my annual sister trip and would be missing Halloween with them, so we thought it would be a good idea to have an early celebration. There was bobbing for apples, making caramel apples, crafts, and pumpkin painting.

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The girls were surprised to find their craft area in the studio decorated with all the garish Halloweeness colors that they love.

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We live in a house that features white pumpkins that I display all fall, so the kiddos get extra excited when I let loose and do the traditional, flashy stuff that makes them so happy.  Throw in a few dollar bin crafts and they were happy as any little ghoul can be. 

Me too.

I'm going to miss them while I'm away.

Punkins and Joy

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This year we chose a chilly day for a trip to the pumpkin patch.  But the cutting, Kansas winds didn't bother these guys.

I was the party pooper who wanted to leave early.  That isn't easy to do, when Sugarwings wants to explore the farthest fields and is automatically drawn to run for the horizon line to find a pumpkin undiscovered by anyone else.  

Sometimes, managing fairies is like herding cats.  Or why don't I just say, herding fairies?  That is a pretty apt description, if you picture a flock of winged, sparkly creatures flying in all directions and me trying to convince them not to flit over the flowers and chase ladybugs, but to go get in a car instead.  

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But there is no force on earth that can keep a cold Grammie out in a field of anything, including this pumpkin wonderland.  I smoothly directed their thoughts toward our next adventure and made the rest of the day seem so enticing that they ran with me to pay for the gourds we bought and then out to the car.

Ha!  Someday, they will realize how diabolical I am in my maneuvering.  But for now?  They think I am fun.  Our pumpkin hunting was successful, and we had a wonderful, if short, visit.  I might have bought a few more big orange ones that I'd planned to, though. Sometimes a bribe helps move things along too.  

Hmmm, I wonder if they were the ones who maneuvered me?

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But seriously, can you have too many pumpkins?

 

 

Dew Drop, Sacred Circus, Sugarwings

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Sugarwings and Dewdrop are learning how to do aerial tricks.

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Dewdrop has a natural grace and already has rhythm and good dance moves, so it is coming natural for her.

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Sugarwings is more like my son, who we used to say looked like a muppet tossed in the air when he danced.  But as he matured, he shocked us with his gracefulness and athleticism. That guy is as smooth as a cat now.  Funny, how I never matured into any level of coordination, I still look like Jerry Lewis on a dance floor.

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We call her act, freestyling.  She has a flair, and is fun to watch, but makes it up as she goes.  Still, she is paying attention and working on some moves.  Both girls get a lot of tutoring from their big sisters and are learning a lot.

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They have no fear of being on stage, and both know how to put on a show.  

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And are pretty brave up in the lira!

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I'm very proud of them both.  And so impressed that they are learning these skills! 

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