A Case of the Januarys

family, Hand Painted Furniture, housework

IMG_8836 Each year, after taking down the Christmas tree, I feel like my house needs… something. There is something about going from full on glitz and glamour to just plain back to normal that is a little sad.  Plus, the weather doesn't help. Being cooped up and staring at the rooms day after day doesn't help. Things that bug me just a little start to bug me a LOT when there is no escape from them.

  Last January, I spent a lot of time neutralizing and de-pinking my kitchen, and rearranging all my pretties in their glass fronted cabinets.

This year, I thought I'd gotten off the hook easy. After taking down the tree, cleaning the rooms and simply shifting a few things from here to there, I thought I was done and past it all.  I was so busy with the funeral and guests that I almost made it to the end of January without taking on a do over anywhere in the house.

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I was content with my simple clean up and and it was nice just to have the tree and most of the Christmas foof hidden away for the year.

But then, I ended up watching Sugarwings for a few days while the flu attacked at her Daddy's house.  And while she was here, a bug got her too. Not the bad, spewing one that was going on at her Daddy's, just a cough and fever.  Enough that she was down, but not out.  Lots of cuddle time and movies.  But, still, I was cooped up in the house, staring at the things that bugged me.

IMG_8816 Since I needed to stay near my sick fairy grand baby, and couldn't really start anything big, I decided to tackle the dreaded closet.

One door leads to the bath, the other to the bedroom where Sugarwings was tucked into my bed watching our new favorite movie, "Percy Jackson and the Olympians."  She and I watched it together twice and when she said she wanted to see it again, I simply had to get up and do something else.

So, Twinkle, Agnes Rosebud and I started tossing stuff out of the closet.

The room was too awful to show a before picture.  It was crowded, and you couldn't even see the floor. I had baskets, furniture, and who knows what cluttering it up.

Where the rolling hamper sits now, was a tall chest filled with too many old clothes.  I threw out 3 garbage bags of clothes not good enough to donate, and packed one boxful to take to the thrift store. 

Now, why did I have all those? And why would I even think they were fit to wear?

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Its easy to cling to things that I might need…. but I realized that I never would need them.  And really, really shouldn't wear them even if I did think that I needed them. I had a wardrobe intervention on myself. Kind of like this summer when I emptied out that old shed.  Man, it felt good to get rid of stuff that was cluttering up my life.

Oh, I kept plenty of comfy tees and hoodies, because I am smart enough to know that I won't ever dress "nice" around the house, or to most places I go.  But I got rid of enough old clothes that I didn't  need and should never be seen in, that I was able to do away with a whole dresser and make the room more open and pleasant.

Then, I arranged all my clothes by color, just like they do at my favorite store, Goodwill. And I recycled all the wire hangers.

What I noticed while doing this, is that I dress myself kinda the way I do my house. My keepers were lots of neutrals with soft pinks, a few flowers and lace, and a touch of aqua blue.

IMG_8824 The space is also our laundry room. When we were newbie empty nesters, we thought it was a brilliant plan to remodel one of the kid's rooms into a larger master bath for us, and turn it into a laundry room at the same time. It is really a nice concept.  As I pull clothes out of the dryer, I hang them up or put them on a shelf, there are no laundry baskets to tote into the other room, and we have more space in our bedroom because we don't need clothes storage in there.  (except  for Sugarwing's clothes- which I am too lazy to carry upstairs in her bedroom, we keep them in our room).

But, that was before we had one son and his family move in and out a couple times, another son move in permanently, and various other relatives come and go.  A laundry room off the master isn't as easy to share as one somewhere else in the house.

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We have two walls of built in shelving, (hand made by Sugarwing's Daddy, who also built my kitchen) and this section of shelving was just the right width to slide in this small chest of drawers that I painted years ago. My boy built the shelf above it to pull out and use as a folding table. Its one of my favorite features.

The room is not very pretty.  It was done on a tight budget, we didn't even finish the floors, I simply painted the sub-floor white.  I guess I could fill all the open shelves with matching wicker baskets and hide away the laundry paraphernalia, but I don't think it is worth my time or the expense.  I did wrap an old crocheted table cloth around my ratty, rolling hamper, but that is about the extent of foofing that I did and that only took a minute, and was free to do.

For now, I am thrilled just to have it cleaned up and feeling spacious.  The trick will be to not fill it back up with junk again.

Yes, I know, this was not the prettiest of blog posts… but to me, that cleared out, naked floor in the walk in closets is one of the most lovely sites I've seen in a long while!  I'm glad I was struck with a case of January-itis and got this project done.

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By the way, Sugarwings is better now, and back home with her father.  Her poor, little Sis-star has her first fever though and we are hoping she doesn't get the spewing flu. 

IMG_8841 I'm back to the studio working on more fun projects, but every time I go in the house, I  take an admiring glance at my closet. 

 

Pixies, and fairies from leftover snowmen

show and tell

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While on the trip to Nebraska I was able to get started on gift bag goodies for my Bird Song event in the Spring.  The theme is nature and birds, so I thought these nest brooches made from felted sweaters and beads would be ideal to pin onto the gift bags that dearest Beth is helping me make.

Yesterday, she brought some examples of ones she made over here but, silly me, I forgot to get photos of them. We are having another craft day next week to make the bags and do taxes. There is nothing better than a BBF who is an accountant when tax season comes along.  I'm not asking her to actually do the taxes themselves, but she is invaluable in helping me sort numbers and get stuff ready.

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I didn't get to do much shopping while in Nebraska, but I did make a side trip to 2nd Chance in Omaha and scored a couple of hats covered in blooms.  The other is small, white velvet flowers, just what I needed for the kits I am making for my class project for Bird Song.  I'm making up overstuffed kits filled with vintage goods, enough so that no one will have to bring anything at all for the project, and they will have plenty of choices to personalize what they are making.

The students will have many options for making my project their own. I'm giving them plenty of ephemera and extra tid bits so that no two people will have the exact same creation.

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No, this isn't our project for the weekend. This was my funeral craft project. Doesn't everyone have the family make crafts at funeral gatherings?

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For Christmas, I'd made up a bunch of paper clay snowmen heads for all of us to work on while dinner cooks. But the day was hectic and most people were running late, so we never got around to making them.  Instead of saving them for next year, I thought we'd make the heads into fairies and pixies.

So, while the house was filled with family staying with us for the funeral, some of us decorated these paper clay guys.  For pixies or gnomes, we left the carrot noses as they were originally on the snowmen.  For fairies, I snipped off and sanded the noses down smaller.

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Most of the heads were sat on boxes that we decorated, some on spools.  This one is just a decapitated head so far.  I might build a paper clay body for her.  Or maybe she'll just get a decorated spool. 

Or maybe she'll just sit on my desk like this for a while.  As a reminder of all the things I need to get done and can't quite catch up on.  Oh, no, that would be depressing.  I'd better finish her instead and let her be a good luck charm!

 

 

At Disney

family, Sugarwings, Travel

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So much has happened since the new year, that I haven't had a chance to show you our Disney pictures. You didn't think you were going to escape a doting grammie's photos of her baby on vacation did you?

Sugarwings was thrilled to meet some of her favorites, Mirry Pippins (as she calls her) was way up on the top of her list of great movies, so this was a real treat for her.

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And of course any one who wants to hear "Alice in Wonderland" read to her over and over can't miss meeting the White Rabbit.  We were walking through the park as he was making his way to the spot set up for him to meet kids and when she spied him, she took off following him just like Alice did. Luckily, there were no big holes for her to fall into.

This was a moment when we could have used Mary Poppin's nanny skills, because Sugarwings saw no reason to stand in a line to give this rabbit a hug.  She was determined to get right to him.

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One character that she really wanted to meet, was not there. But it looks like there are plans for a Little Mermaid attraction to be built soon.  And Ariel was featured in a 3D movie that we saw multilple times.  At each showing, Sugarwings had to call out, "Hi Ariel!!!!!"

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We got to the park early and it wasn't too crowded yet.  It was nice to explore a bit and let our fairy princess run about.  Once the place filled up, we had to keep her close.  She likes to run, though, so we found a playground in Toon Town for her to play in for a while. 

She made a few friends there, mostly boys.  She was wearing her dress over her head part of the time and asking boys if they would marry her. I think she thought the filmy net of her skirt felt like a bridal veil. 

I  hope this isn't how she plans on meeting her prince charming someday…

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We ended up carrying her through most of the park.  She spent a lot of the day on her Pop Pop's shoulders.  I took a few turns of holding her too.  It made me not feel as bad about missing time at the gym to haul her 30 pounds around for a few hours.

Plus, I love any excuse to cuddle her.

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We only spent one day at the Magic Kingdom, and two nights at the hotel.  I think that if we go again, we'll take  a bit more time to explore. Saying goodbye wasn't easy for me. I had waaaaayyy too much fun!

 

An odd trip to Nebraska

family, Travel

IMG_1590 What a relief to be home. And to a clean house. I took time before we left to spic and span up the joint and de-christmas it.  There is nothing nicer than coming home from a rough trip to a welcoming, cleaned up house filled with little dogs happy to see you.

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Not only did I de-christmas it all, I rearranged all the funeral flowers too. Kind hearted friends had sent a couple of dozen floral baskets to the funeral and all of them got delivered to my house afterward.  So, we distributed them between family and the local nursing home (where Ardell used to live until he met and married his wife who worked there-a  long, odd story that you probably don't want to hear).

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I don't know about you, but if I lived in a nursing home, I'd be depressed when a truckload of flowers left over from a funeral got delivered.  Just a reminder that time is short in those places.  Kind of a poke saying
"another one bites the dust". 

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Or maybe they just enjoy having pretty flowers around and don't think about it like that.

I know that I am enjoying the freshly rearranged flowers.  I prefer a less formal look, and took all of the stems out of the baskets, trimmed up the ends and plopped the posies into vases and pots to sit all around the house.   Many of the flowers had gone brown, and lots had been given away, but I still ended up with at least one vaseful in each room, the dining room and kitchen each got 3 or 4.

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Some people had sent baskets of growing plants too.  Those all got re-potted.  I also rearranged all the furniture in the living room, but am not thrilled with the new look….  It might need a tweaking now that I am back home and have more time.

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Our trip was certainly memorable.

We had my father-in-law's coffin loaded into my brother-in-law's truck.  Then, a caravan of us followed the body up highway 75 to Nebraska where Ardell wanted to be put to rest next to his parents.

Seemed simple.  And his widow wasn't left with a lot of money, so driving the body ourselves was going to save the cost of having it transported.

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But not all goes according to plans, does it?

We stopped along the road after my BIL pulled over, thinking he just needed to stretch his legs, only to find out that his truck was as dead as the passenger it was carrying.  had broken down.

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We were in the middle of nowhere, on back roads with no cell phone reception, so it was lucky that we had kept together.  We were able to pull them with our own truck.  We were also lucky that the next small town we came to had a Chevy dealership. 

The day was snowy and freezing cold, one of those below zero Nebraska days where the wind whips across the corn fields and right into your bones. So, I'm glad no one had to walk, and that we didn't have to pull them far.  It could have been much worse.

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There was talk of loading the coffin into the back of our truck and leaving the broken down truck behind to be repaired and picked up the next day, but the garage promised it to us by that afternoon, so we stuck around and killed time while waiting.

The first store we went in had a sign that said " Antiques" but I found out that was an old sign that the new owner hadn't taken down yet. She said the town used to be ALL antique shops. Used to be. Now there were none.

IMG_1606 We did find a thrift shop where everything was 88 cents.  Everything!  And with plenty of time, you could really dig through the stuff, not just glance over it and leave. Its easy to overlook some nice things at thrift stores if you don't really take your time to look through it.

I got some shirts, and we found Pixie Pie some books, plus spent some time sitting on the floor of the shop reading them to her.  Sugarwings wasn't along on the trip, which turned out to be a good thing, she isn't as patient as her cousin is.

The guys played cards, we explored the town, we had some lunch, and we laughed a lot.  The situation was feeling pretty absurd to us.  But all worked out well, and we were back on the road in about 4 hours. 

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Ardell was safely delivered to the funeral home, and had a nice send off the next day in Madison on what had to be the coldest day I've ever vountarily went outside in.   Arctic and icy, but the  Nebraskans didn't seem to notice.  I figured that if little kids and a 90 year old aunt could take the wind chill to be there for the short, graveside service, I should buck up and not complain.

It was an interesting stay in Norfolk.  Did you know that hotel rooms start at about $38 a night there? And that you can take a dozen people out to dinner for only $120??? That included appetizers, wine, beer, and ribeye steaks too. (we ate at the Grainery Family Diner)  If you ever need a getaway, to somewhere friendly, affordable, and with beautiful snowy scenery, I sure recomend seeing Nebraska.  Personal service every where you go too.  Everyone we met seemed like a next door neighbor ready to lend a hand or advice or a smile.

But I don't reccommend touring the countryside with a cargo load like ours.  Leave the dead relatives at home if you decide to go.

 

 

 

If Dorothy was a scrap booker

Books, vintage paper/collage art

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Back when I was working on the Dorothy Tag Book Swap, and I was knee deep in all things Oz, I made up a book with all the leftover odds and ends and pages from the two vintage Wizard of Oz books I'd been using for the swap. 

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Its a little bit different, as I made it, I pretended to be Dorothy putting together a scrap book.

I went through all my old photos and found people who looked like characters in the book and did a page for each of them.

Dorothy is a ceramic silhouette.  Em and Henry are a vintage sepia photo.

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Each page is themed to fit the person.  Hunk (the farmhand who becomes the scarecrow) got burlap behind his picture. And Hickory (Tin man/farmhand) got a heart charm and I used lots of silver toned items around him.

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My favorite likeness was of the lion.  Look at that guy's face! 

IMG_5064 Professor Marvel/Wizard got a hot air balloon made out of a rainbow of ribbons and I added elixir bottles from an old ad to his photo.

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Nessa Rose, the Wicked Witch of the East (yes, I was throwing in some ideas from Wicked too) got lots of glitter and glam added to her photo.  

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And I painted her legs sticking out from under the house in this cottage print from the 30s.

The ballerina cake toppers represent the Munchkins.

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For Glinda's bubble, I took apart an old alarm clock and used the plastic dome. There are lots of sparkles and glitter on her page too.

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Elphaba has been slightly tinted green and has a broom made up of burlap threads and a stick from a shrub growing outside of my studio. Its glued down to a page featuring the melting scene.

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As many old photos as I have, there are very few with dogs in them.  So, I used a greeting card and some other random charms, plus a hand drawn basket for Toto's page.

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The end has a pocket with a tag I created for the swap.  And on the very last page, is the label from a 1930s book, signed by the owner of it, a girl named Dorothy. I tried to use as many original elements as I could, and the older the better.  

Sugarwings doesn't quite know what to think of the book. I made it for her, but the concept is a bit beyond her for now. She likes it, but doesn't really think I have the right people in it, she'd rather see photos of Judy Garland than a ceramic silhouette of a girl in pigtails.

But, that is just part of teaching her about creating  art and about looking beyond the ordinary.   I have a feeling that she will grow to appreciate what I am trying to show her.

A new computer and some old pictures and some pictures I’ve NEVER seen before

paintings

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While I had family members in town who were much more computer literate than I am, I took advantage of their skills and had them help me buy a new laptop.

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Its WONDERFUL!!!!  I'm using it with a docking station so that I have the same keyboard and screen as before, but can now have the option to be more portable.  Plus, this guy is speedy. Wow, I didn't realize how slow my old one was till this new one started whipping through pages at lightening speed!.

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There is a slight learning curve with the update to Windows 7, and moving from Outlook Express to Live Mail. 

And a few little glitches like, I can get emails but not send any….  That will be  an easy fix,I'm sure.  I'll unplug the laptop and take it back to the sweet boys at the Geek Squad who are probably sick of me by now. But I can't go quite yet, my car is trapped in a snow drift and I'm not going anywhere for a while.

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So, I've been cleaning out files and poking around trying to learn this new machine's tricks.  I had to re-download Picassa and when I did, it went a little wild and added dozens of pictures that I'd never seen before.

I don't know where they came from, but they weren't mine. I've been deleting file after file after file of hot rod cars, pin up girls, and who knows what. 

One really weird thing was that there were a lot of photos that looked kinda familiar.  But weren't. Like photos of kids that were sorta like Sugarwings.  And Yorkies that weren't mine.  And pictures of artwork oddly similar to what I do, but that I did not do.

Is my new laptop haunted?

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To delete all the photos that didn't belong,  I had to go through all of my pictures and clean out ones that weren't mine.  While doing it, I found a few that I'd taken but never shown. Like these paintings I did at a downtown Lawrence shop. Once upon a time, I was a muralist and faux painter. 

I don't miss all the ladders. It was hard work. 

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So is shovelling out cars from the snow.  Which I'd better get busy on.  Uck. Unless I can charm my boys into doing it for me….  There is nothing better than having adult sons!

Thankful

family

IMG_8593 Well, I think its time things start to get back to normal around here.

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  I feel like I've been in some sort of limbo, between nonstop holiday fun, then a week's vacation followed by wrapping up and sending hundreds of purchases from my Boutique sale. After barely catching up and getting settled back home, a big snow storm hit and then, the bad news about my father-in-law.

This weekend we will be driving the body up to Nebraska where he wanted to be buried. We are also taking his favorite recliner to the nursing home there, but no, we won't be strapping him into that. Although, I do think he might have enjoyed it.

So, I won't be back into my routine for a bit. Thanks for all your messages and kind words, sorry I haven't been able to answer them all. But I read and appreciated each one.

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Its a sad time when someone dies suddenly.  Its a realization that hopes are cancelled, relationships will never improve, this was it, all there was. Potentials never fulfilled, reconcilliations never made.

IMG_8560 My husband's family is amazing. Caring people with sharp wits and the capacity for deep love. All of them came together to be  there for each other to celebrate their sibling love and honor their father.

He was not an easy man and like all humans, had his flaws.  But I will love him forever for creating this diverse and adorable group. They are all wildly different people with opposite religious, political, and lifestyle views. But all enjoy each other's company and accept the huge variations of their beliefs.

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In his last years, my husband's father learned to show a softer side with these two great grand children.  Pixie Pie and Sugarwings got through to him.

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Sugarwings knew he loved her and that she could make him smile by singing the Nebraska fight song for him.   Her memories of Grandpa Ardell  will always be good ones.

Even though our home was filled with laughter and fun with all the relatives visiting, she picked up on her Pop Pop's underlying sadness and when he tucked her in at night, she told him, "When I grow up I will go to school and be a doctor and make sick people better. Then your daddy won't die, Pop Pop."

Yes, families aren't perfect.  But there are perfect moments in each. We had a lot of those this week.  And I am thankful.

 

 

 

 

Thanks so much!

flowers

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Thank you all for your nice messages and prayers.   We gave my father-in-law a great send off and had a fabulous family gathering to say farewell.  I have to say, that man sure had some wonderful kids. I'm lucky to be a part of such a family.

They came together with lots of love, caring and laughter, and made this week one to always remember. Sometimes the saddest occasions can also be the happiest. When you belong to a group of people like these!

A Good bye

celebrations, family

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Yesterday, my father-in-law died suddenly.

Today, family from all over the country is flying in.  My husband has the best family, and we will have a wonderful gathering, all 7 of the kids, plus most of the spouses, together- talking, laughing, sharing memories.

The group is quite varied.  About as many different religions as people.  And as many different outlooks on life. But one thing they all have in common is a deep love for each other.

I'll be away from my blog for a few days, and won't be opening up the Bird Song event on May Day weekend for sale till after things get settled.  Because I'll be busy enjoying the blessing of this close group of people coming from far away to be be together for this farewell.

Now, I'm off to freshen up beds and  do some baking with Sugarwings to make our house welcoming before we start airport runs.

Kansas City will be lacking Curiousity

antiques/junking, free images

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Yesterday, I just had to go and say good bye to the Curious Sofa.  It was Debbie's last day and I figured there wouldn't be much shopping left, but that isn't why I wanted to go anyway.

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I just wanted to say so long to one of the prettiest shops I've ever been in. Debbie has decided that she is ready for a change and is happily moving on.  She has tons of customers who love her and I think all of them turned out to get one last purchase from Curious Sofa.

IMG_1559 Knowing that her clearance sale had been a success, I still was shocked when I arrived and saw this!  Nothing left but sold items waiting to be claimed, extension cords, and work room supplies like the microwave and blender.

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Yet, with all the inventory gone, the shop still held its beauty.

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Even though the store was bare bones, it sure wasn't some spooky Halloween skeleton! With everything moved out, I could really appreciate the care that Debbie put into creating the whole atmosphere. 

Each bit of wall and ceiling held evidence of her vision.  That woman is so talented that even with her inventory sold, her shop still was an inspiration to see. 

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No matter what her next adventure in creating will be, I have full faith in her success.  She has the dedication to detail that makes everything she touches make her audience say "ooooh". 

I feel really lucky that she will be coming to my studio to teach one of the workshops for our Bird Song retreat on May Day weekend. 

(details about the event coming soon- I'm not quite done with getting the website up for sales yet, thanks for waiting.  There will be 20 spots to sell, its going to be a cozy, casual weekend at my home)

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While I wasn't expecting to shop at Curious Sofa, I was lucky to find a few old photos left over from the big exodus, as well as one lonely post card sitting on a shelf by itself.

The card's picture seemed appropriate for the situation, a road leading off to the distance and a person walking away, with the words, "A bright and happy new year" printed below.  I hope that this is a what awaits Debbie, as she walks away from her well loved shop toward greener pastures.

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I've scanned the card for you, so you can have a souvenier of Curious Sofa too. Click on it to open in a larger window, then save that bigger image to your computer to print.

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