The right way to get the day you really want!

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Thanks for all your happy birthday wishes! It was a fun day, I invited some pals over for a tee shirt embellishment day and for birthday cake.  There were some issues with the transfer paper, we never did figure it out. But I had bought a bunch of different types of printable fabrics to try too, and those worked out well.  For this brown tee, I added a copy of one of my favorite vintage paintings, then some velvet and lace trim under it.  To finish off, it got old seam binding around the neck. The shirt is Lycra, so I stretched it as far as I could and straight stitched the ribbon to the neckline. When I let go of the pulled fabric, the ribbon ruffled just like I hoped that it would!

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Everyone brought their own shirts or bags to work on, and then I had an assortment of goodies for them to go through and add to them, as well as a bunch of pictures I had downloaded and printed onto fabric.  Of course, nothing was exactly right for what they needed, and we spent most of the day going through my supplies and my folders of images to see what they wanted to use for their pieces.  Isn't that how it always goes? The stuff set aside for a project is never quite what you want, something buried or squirreled away is much more intriguing.

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The crystals and glitter pens were popular though. Well, dur! Of course crystals are great to use!!

After the group left for the day, I sat down and worked on a couple shirts for myself, it had been hectic earlier with so much going on and I wanted to wear a new shirt when my boys and I went out for dinner.  Ryan and Sugarwing's Daddy took me to my favorite Italian place, then we went to see Wolverine.   Hugh was my favorite Xman before, but after this movie, I love him even more!  And Ryan Reynolds is a fave of mine too, so it was fun to see Van Helsing take on Van Wilder.

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Thanks also for your get well wishes for poor little Twinkle's toes.  She is no longer whining and whimpering, and is back to running around, so I'd say she is feeling better.

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Especially after a visit from one of her puppies, Bella.

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Sugarwings (who by the way, is an excellent helper when it is time to blow out birthday candles) was glad to see Bella too.

Are you noticing anything different about my blog today?

Guess what came as my birthday gift! The CANNON REBEL!!!!!!!!!  yep, that one. The one I've whined about and wished for.  And you know who gave it to me?  I did.

The best way to have a wonderful birthday is to throw it for yourself.  I bought a cake, invited friends over for a craft day, supplied the crafts, picked out the restaurant and movie to to take my sons to, and bought the gift I wanted for the last year.  The perfect birthday, perfectly orchestrated by me.   Everyone was happy to have the burden of what to do for mom lifted from them and I had exactly what I wanted. Now, why did it take me 51 birthdays to figure that out?  I guess wisdom comes with age.

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Good camera, huh? What a nice gift!!!

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I realized that I never showed you the goods that I bought last week at the flea mkt, so I'll leave you with a few photos from my OLD camera of my finds.

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Can you see the difference?

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Now, that wasn't a horrid camera, and I will still be using it quite a bit. It fits so nicely into my jeans pocket.  But I love my new Rebel XSi!!!

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Well, that photo sure isn't very good. I wonder what makes me show them any way, when I know they are bad? 

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Last week's shopping trip was a day for figurines and babies, as well as millinery and jewels.  Lots of small things, I liked not having much to carry in at the end of the day.

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Before I go, I need to announce the hand painted Birthday Cupcake Charm-

Claudia

And to say thanks again for helping make my day special with all of your kind comments!

34 thoughts on “The right way to get the day you really want!”

  1. what a great birthday…you know one of my birthday wishes already 🙂
    i totally plan for what i want too. it is very satisfying even without surprises.
    ooooh i want a rebel sooo bad. i looked at them once. and had to look away.
    glad you were surrounded with friends and family.
    have a great thursday.
    chasity

  2. Congrats on the camera! We (hubby thinks it’s 1/2 his –brouhahahaha) splurged on a Rebel last year and I just love it. Lucky that our Canon lenses from the old film camera work on it! Especially love the macro lens.
    I’d love to hear more about your tests of printable fabrics. Which worked well for you? Do you have a laser jet or ink jet printer?

  3. Happy Birthday to you Karla! I’m a day late and a dollar short, but it sounds like it was fun! Glad you finally got your new camera too – you will have fun with that!

  4. Happy Birthday Karla. I think that was a wonderful plan, buy yourself just what you wanted and celebrate just the way you want to. You know the Song Goes like this…. It’s my party and I’ll do what I want to…..
    Hugs, Diane

  5. That sure sounds like you had a great day Karla. So glad, and WOW, I love the pictures with the new camera grrrl, you did good with that one. Looks much more true to colors now. Have fun with your new toy!!
    Hugs!!
    Sonia

  6. Deborah Woodrow

    Dear Karla:
    HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! Wow ! Love the pics of the flea mkt goodies. And little twinkles, is getting better, YAY !
    Glad you got your new camera, and you had a nice birthday, now thats the smart way to do things ! Wish I could have been to the crafting day.
    Love,
    Deborah

  7. Hi Karla, I’m so glad that you had a
    great Birthday celebration and were able
    to do the special things that you wished
    to do on your day. Love the pretty tee shirt
    that you made and I’m sooooooo glad that
    sweet Twinkle is on the mend. The pics of
    Bella, Twinkle and Sugarwings are adorable!!
    Hugs,
    Janis

  8. What a wonderful birthday. I love the photos you took with the new camera. It’s on my wish list.
    Happy Belated Birthday
    Kris

  9. what a great birthday Karla…the pictures taken with your new camera look fantastic!!! how clever that you bought your own present…that really is the best way to get exactly what you want:)

  10. Karla, you are one smart lady! Sounds like a wonderful birthday day. I just chose and ordered my own Mother’s Day gifts off of Etsy this year – I’m getting exactly what I like and what I want, and no trouble for husband!

  11. oh happy birthday Karla dear!
    I always buy myself something special for my birthday! I know just what i like!
    glad you had a happy day!
    hugs
    vivian

  12. What a great birthday! You make me want to stay home from work and make cute t-shirts too! Well, glad it was happy!
    hugs! karen…

  13. Happy Belated Birthday! That’s a great idea to ensure a fabulous birthday…..orchestrate it yourself! I love the idea of having a shirt embellishing day…..how fun! I can’t believe the difference in the photos….hmmmm, maybe I’ll have to look into a new camera.
    Blessings!
    Christa
    Chloe Rose
    Kindred Roses

  14. Karla, I am SOOOOOO sorry I didn’t stop by to wish you a happy birthday! I can see you had a WONDERFUL day!!! And the new camera… you have been wanting that for so long! Yay for finally getting it!
    Glad Twinkle is feeling better. little cutie
    xoxo Heather

  15. Happy belated bday Karla I kept meaning to get over here and wish you the best! It’s been crazy here, school is almost out 🙂 LOVE LOVE that you got a new camera!!!! That is the best camera, I sure loved mine. Great pics and love the iron on idea. I wonder why it didn’t work? Did you use fabric softener when you washed the shirts? Sometimes that will effect the transfer. Glad you had a great bday hope to see you soon, shawn 🙂

  16. I am a day late with my Happy Birthday, or, as I like to refer to it, just extending the celebration a day or two. Congrats on the new camera! And lovely finds, as always. Hope this year is fabulous!

  17. Happy Birthday Karla! A little late…. I love all the pictures of the dorkies you have been putting up lately:) Your silver little one is beautiful!! Sugarwings hair is so cute in little braids. I remember when….she is fifteen now. No more braids. Have fun with your new camera. Hurray!

  18. Happy birthday and congrats on the great camera, the pictures are very nice..
    I just loved the idea of your perfect birthday, I guess I don’t wanna wait till I am 51 to use that idea, better learn from others experiences and save me some disappointments , well maybe on my next birthday.

  19. Great post, but I’m mad at myself because I missed your birthday! So belated wishes. Glad to hear Twinkle’s toes are improved. She looks sad with the bandage.
    And lovely photos — Go Canon! What a fabulous gift!

  20. Happy Birthday and Feliz Cinco de Mayo, belatedly! I had it written down and promptly covered up the calendar mouse pad, oops. Great new photos from your camera. My dh has a Canon and loves his. I’m looking for a new one that takes better close-ups. I always love to see good photos. Good for you for buying it for yourself!
    ~Marilee

  21. Karla,
    So happy you had such a great day. You’re so smart to plan your party. Love the pixs of Sugar Wings and the puppies! I know of several people who have that camera, it must be fabulous!! Enjoy and I know we will all profit from your great photos.
    Sandy

  22. So glad you had a fabulous birthday! I learned the birthday give yourself a gift lesson a long time ago, and have never been disappointed since, and my husband loves how easy peasy it is! Good first gift to give yourself! Now, maybe some new lenses for mother’s day???
    xoxo, Tiffany
    PS Can’t wait to see you!

  23. YEAH!!! BEST KIND OF GIFTS…and you get it right! lol…so question is…did you wrap it and oooo and ahhh…over it when you opened it? lol…i’m in lacey, washington right now…(LOVE LOVE THE CITY NAME!) i found http://www.shipwreckbeads.com the store here..i have never in my life seen so many beads! omgoodness! today we head to mt. rainier and tommorrow the ocean….
    sooo loving those baby dollies!!! wow what finds!!!
    we are going to a couple of vintage sales here..may have to ship the goodies home or ???

  24. I love it!! I guess I need to give myself what I want next birthday. It will save my husband from the midnight run the night before my birthday even though I have told him for the whole month that my birthday is coming up…..great idea!!

  25. That’s the best birthday party ever and you deserve it indeed! Congratulations on the new camera, I’m sure you will have a blast trying it out.

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